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Old 11-24-2011, 09:05 PM   #26
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Old 11-24-2011, 09:11 PM   #27
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I think you're missing the big picture, and that's if you're consistently getting hard when you watch porn, but seem to always fail with a girl then there is a problem, and it's not because you're "not supposed to get your guns off like when you're a teenager". Seriously, you shouldn't have erection issues in your 20s unless you actually have a medical problem. That isn't the case here or you wouldn't get off to porn either. I do agree with you that getting your rocks off too much most likely plays a big part as well, but I kind of figured if you're watching porn you're not just sitting there eating cereal.
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Old 11-25-2011, 04:25 PM   #30
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What's the difference between jerking it to porn 3x + a day vs. having sex 3x + a day?

Let's say a guy is privileged enough to have the availability of sex 3x - 4x a day; and it would even be more epic (ie. celebrities, dictators[ie: Quadafi, Bin Laden]) if it could be of varying partners regularly? After years of 'said practice, are they less susceptible to ED because it's "actual sex" rather than "simulated sex"?

Or if they are just as susceptible... is your solution "less sex" ?



Me thinks you're just trying to villify porn for your condition since considering it's societal stigma, it's the most convenient scapegoat.

You're wrong.. and so is your outlook onto the situation.

First off, the problem is not ED.
The problem is ED with REAL women.

Did I have ED with my hand and porn? No.
At the very start I tell you that I had 100% perfect erections.. by my self. I didn't just go limp for no reason. I was hard when I was viewing porn.

Now, to answer your question, "After years of 'said practice, are they less susceptible to ED because it's "actual sex" rather than "simulated sex"?"

They are only less susceptible to ED with a real woman.But only because they're conditioned to have sex in real life, with a real person.. They can have sex and actually feel. They aren't conditioned to constantly seek bigger and more impossible and more shocking novelty. Of course sometimes people cheat because their love life is boring or [insert 1000 other reasons here], but no one ever leaves their real woman so they can watch porn.

These people, including my self, did not develop ED as you know it.
I didn't have ED when I was viewing porn..
We conditioned our mind's to constantly fantasize and desensitized our selves to ACTUAL sex.

Want to know how I was able to get erections during sex when I was having this problem? I had to constantly fantasize about the scenarios I saw in porn.
Furthermore, they were bizzare fantasies sometimes, nothing you could do in real life anyawy. If I drifted from said fantasy for a few moment's, I'd lose it.

This is why this is not simply 'ED', it's Porn Induced ED. Huge difference. Which is also why when you reboot, you end up being able to have sex again with normal women, in normal situations and you learn to actually feel..and orgasm because it feels good.. not because you fantasized your self to orgasm.

The only thing that really slightly offends me is your claim that I need a scapegoat. You're wrong, I didn't have to tell you this story, I could have just not told you and you wouldn't have known.
I couldn't care less what you think.. but then again, if you read my posts actually, you'd know that.
Also, try watching the videos.. 20 seconds into the first one, the guy says he's not against porn, doesn't care what you do and isn't trying to get rid of anything.

And I still view porn.. except it's so rare that I can't remember the last time I watched it.. 3 months ago maybe?
And I will in the future I'm sure.
Just calm down, no one is trying to take away your right to impregnate your monitor, I'm just doing this in case someone is in the shoes I was in.

And asking "Or if they are just as susceptible... is your solution "less sex" ? "

Shows how you don't even understand my problem.

I viewed A LOT of porn and I NEVER got any ED from that..
So Why would someone who has real sex on a daily basis get ED from real sex? They would not. Just like I didn't with porn, because I was constantly on porn. My problem was when it came to REAL sex.. (which I stopped having for a long long time ).
If anything they'll get conditioned to only real sex.

My ED was with the people I was NOT having sex with. It wasn't there with my monitor and porn. With my porn I was always 100% hard and fail proof.

I suggest you re-read what I wrote.
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Self gratification is self gratification, whether be it actual sex or simulated sex. Frequency and over-indulgence of either is going to lead to the same thing.

So the problem is "over-indulgence" not this "porn is at fault" nonsense.


Say the situation was reversed and the OP had the privilege of sexual activity that parallels that of a celebrity rock star, would he be making the same thread stating: ED/Sex induced - solution have less sex and/or abstinence for X period?
But I over-indulged on porn.. and i never had ED with porn... so your argument doesn't hold up.
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Getting your rocks off too much is too blame for desensitization, whether it's by way of too much masturbation or too much sex doesn't matter - but IS the natural consequence for either or; and porn isn't even necessarily necessary for "masturbation" per se. Masturbation is just something people just do regardless of porn
I guess you also failed to read the fact that people in my shoes couldn't get off WITHOUT porn.

Again, you're creating completely irrelevant remarks when there is really no room for them.

I even said in my original post that porn isn't the problem. It's the person conditioning them selves to porn only and when it comes to real sex, they need to fantasize and think about the stuff they saw in porn for all those years and without it they can't stay hard. Ta-da.. there's the answer. No need to discuss it any further really unless you want it to go off topic.
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yourbrainonporn is a interesting site... did no fap up to 14 days fucking hard as fuck but you seriously being to notice changes in all aspects of your life and energy levels are unreal.... its amazing
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When your fapping, you dont worry about giving your partner an orgasm, just bust a nut as fast as possible. Possible performance anxiety?
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didn't fap for like 2 days, came buckets on gf's back, i suggest you do the same with your woman,

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^This.

I actually remember reading this somewhere.
If you're too worried about performing well, your nerves overtake your sex drive.
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maybe this is why people say sex is so good with fat chicks
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