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Old 11-29-2011, 07:27 PM   #26
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Its in your head bro call me if you like. I use it when I'm too drunk or to fucked to fuck. Then its fuck and fuck and fuck and fuck.............and you feel like THA MAN and she'll be high fivin you!
Whiskey dick was somethin I thought I'd never encounter and bout one year ago I did (I'm 35 so it was a good run) I was shocked but only let it happen once went and saw my doc and got that little fucker back in line.
The girlfriend loves it when I come to bed with bad breath slurred speech more beer and a little blue pill in me.

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Old 11-29-2011, 07:39 PM   #27
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Damm the one person I didn't want to read this LOL, thanks buddy you gotta come over for drinks soon. You dog better not shit in my bedroom again tho
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Old 11-30-2011, 10:39 AM   #28
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I just realized I've learned WAY too much about dinosaur and Gridlock's love life in the past month than I ever really needed to know.
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I just realized I've learned WAY too much about dinosaur and Gridlock's love life in the past month than I ever really needed to know.
LOL I love their stories... both the rental ones and the love ones.... fav couple on RS by far
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LOL I love their stories... both the rental ones and the love ones.... fav couple on RS by far
That is too funny. I can't even really remember why she came to join. I'm pretty sure someone posted something she disagreed with, and I told her to create her own account to fight back.

Now she's telling me that I need to go and read some thread somewhere. It makes me laugh.

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lol don't get me wrong, I wasn't complaining
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ewww. Dude, that is so wrong.
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Old 11-30-2011, 06:44 PM   #33
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I just want to say a huge thanks to a certain member who sent me this PM. I really wanted to post it(with their permission of course) because it's great advice and I'm sure it would help others in the situation I'm currently in

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hey man, figured id send this as a pm as its easier and not something some guys would rather talk about publicly.

anyways, i had the same problem...so i asked adam about it on facebook and he just told me to get checked out and it oculd be from all the supplements i take and shit...

anyways, i went to my doctor and did some blood tests...everything was great....so he sent me to a urologist...he basically said i have something very common called "performance anxiety" and you get it when you get into new relationships.

he gave me some viagra...worked like a charm...ran out of the 4 pills with the new girl i was dating and bam...would be hard as a rock...then when the pants came off...limp...

so went back, he gave me the number to a sex therapist named "bianca rucker" (apparently shes one of BC's best and shes local) so i went to her, she told me the same thing...when you get in a new relationship...your scared that you wont please her and basically your brain starts subliminally thinking about every worst case scenario and its gets to the point where your body makes it so you go limp so you cant go through with it in all...guess you can say its like fight or flight...well your body just books it haha, it sucks.

but in the end, she told me you just have to be 100% comfortable with the girl, and if you cant get the erection, who cares...if you start stressing about it, its just going to build up more and more and going to repeat its self next time.

heres what she told me to do:

sit down, feet on the floor, palms on your thighs, shut your eyes and think to yourself for 30 seconds about how much of a stud you are.. just keep repeating it in your mind "im a stud...women love me, im good looking...etc etc etc"

after 30 seconds or so, think about the feeling you get when you do have an erection, the feeling of manlyness and how it makes you feel like a million bucks. all while still repeating the first part in your head at the same time. do this for another 30 seconds.

finally, visualize yourself with a massive hard on for another 30 seconds or so. still repeating the first 2 parts now.

do that several times a day for a week or 2 straight.

i still get performance anxiety even though ive been dating the girl for a while...but at least now its now where near as bad as it used to be!!!! now if i find myself limp...i just gotta tell myself its no big deal, and im just not turned on enough, so we go back to fooling around and a minute or two later...rock hard again

hope it helps man! theres 300$ worth of advice she gave me lol

if that still doesnt work, id say give her a call, she does hypnosis as well (im a lil skeptical of that...but id be willing to try it if my performance anxiety doesnt go away).
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Ugh condoms are such a boner killer you arent alone man. Not sure if you do anyways but have to tried not jerking off for an extended period of time I find that after awhile im so ready to go because i just havent gotten off for weeks that a condom isnt even a problem.
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Well lets just say a 3rd times a charm and I was good to go more then once

Thanks again for the advice everyone I think talking about it helped as well. just hope I dont run into this situation again but some of the advice is excellent and I'm sure it will help others in the future.
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just stay calm, your prob too nervous?
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I agree with what most ppl say here. condoms really makes you lose erection. Once you hear the word "condom" it triggers your mind into thinking that you'll lose half, if not more, of the sensation and pleasure of sex and therefore puts you in a mindset that it will not be enjoyable. I honestly hate wearing condom and have tried a few times but never successful and never finish.
Cheer up and dont stress out too much about it. relax and focus on the enjoyment of sex. foreplay, roleplay if you have to. let the moment set the mood.
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This shit is messed my issue is back. On the weekend no problems what so ever now two nights in a row WTF. Took one of those little blue pills and of coruse went like a champ but what the hell why is this happening when on the weekend I was fine
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i gotta say that theres a good chance its all mental.
if you're with a girl for 12 years then into another relationship maybe you're just subconsciously nervous? the more you think about it does it make the problem worse?
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Is your job super stressful? Maybe something to do with the work week is psyching you out when it comes to gettin down
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i gotta say that theres a good chance its all mental.
if you're with a girl for 12 years then into another relationship maybe you're just subconsciously nervous? the more you think about it does it make the problem worse?
The ex has been msg and calling me to try to get me back. No chance at all but that has to be the issue no questions asked. I honestly never thought before that something mental could take a toll this much on someone. I better get over it quick dammit!!!!
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Damn it I told you in the first response that the pill would give you the physical ability but not the mental! lol Try what I said in my previous responses Bro.

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Try not to start to rely on the pill....after a while, you may "mentally" begin to rely on it and never be able to fuck without it.

Maybe you need more distance b/w you and your ex?
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I feel your pain.

I'm sure it has happened at least once to all men out there.
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Old 12-08-2011, 10:38 PM   #47
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Damn it I told you in the first response that the pill would give you the physical ability but not the mental! lol Try what I said in my previous responses Bro.

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No it aint like that at all, I just used it on Tuesday and I can tell ya when a chick turns around with those eyes and says wow you are amazing I didn't think you had it in you makes everything worth while

That being said I had no issue tonight at all so I'm even more confused lol
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if you need a lil *boost start* talk to your doc, he can put you on a very low daily dosage of cialis, wich will eventually build up in your system and get the performance anxiety part out of the way, then once your good for a while you slowly start weening off of it and hopefully it should fix the problem.

other then that, its all mental....we've all been there...im in the same boat as you kinda right now since im dating a new girl and every time its time to rock...i start over thinking and shit doesnt work out so well sometimes...just take a deep breath...relax...dont let it get to your head or else you'll constantly think about it...think about it so often that you'll make it so you cant get the erection.
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Why not just get a clean bill of health test so you dont have to use condoms?
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Why not just get a clean bill of health test so you dont have to use condoms?
Not every girl is on the pill and even if they are you have to trust them enough that they take it regularly without missing.

Myself, the pullout and rhythem method has been working for the last 6 years or so my wifes been off the pill.
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