lol... don't want to lose you so she drives you up the wall. Act of desperation, perhaps? While ppl need time to cool off, its an excrutiating feeling to be left hanging with no resolution at a problem. So i can see why shes msging/calling alot after a fight.

Only a fool builds his house on an unstable foundation.


With that said and with so many continuous complaints thus far, have things settled down? Have you made a decision on what to do now and in the future? You seem to dislike this greatly (lost the passion) yet it looks like you're in for the long haul. You either love her so badly or you're in deep denial. Or maybe whipped.

Also... your display pic looks damn scrumptious. Toast... =9

Peanut Butter, so tasty but I'm allergic to it in large doses.

Maybe a few years back I would throw in the towel and surrender to her demands, now I've got more responsibilities to deal with before her nagging/out lashes.

She's decided to take a chill pill when it comes to our relationship. No more checking my phone or snooping in general, no more asking for a key and complaining when I'm out socializing without her. It was an offer I couldn't refuse but we'll see how long they last.

Im just gonna go ahead and say this. Dont expect it to all turn off automatically right away

i hope it works out for you. but honestly when i read the above statement, this immediately came to mind:

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Thanks bro,

Every moment :suspicious:

I imagine it's going to be a big transition for her so I expect some uncertainties

:accepted:

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WEISER locks

let in half-drunk women and keep welcome-overstayed ex or angry current girlfriend away since 1904

Remember its always a two way street. She probably wont be 100% right away but it helps a lot if you are assertive and be straight with her.

And cut her some slack shes trying.

Find a relationship without the crazy. Going 15 years strong now, even when we first started going out we never had on and off again, hell we had maybe 2 arguments in our first 3 years of dating both settled before going to bed.

Mad props bro

An interesting read. I don't know what your situation is now.

Girl seems kinda crazy, but most girls are. From her perspective, I see her point. If you were in her shoes and you found a guy cooking dinner for her when you came home, what would you think?

The point is, from what you told her, and from not being straight honest with her in the first place, she derived that you didn't have another key. She trusted in you saying that, and then finding another woman in your apartment is very different.

I would apologize and be straight open and honest. Women love that, even if it is what it is. They don't like being liked to for sure, and the trust issues will begin. So it may time to gain that trust again (if you are still with her).

I mean, if she's the girl you want to be with then you will go for it. If not, then might as well end it now.

The crazy is either slowly leaving her system or just building up for a gigantic eruption.

Things have been better, the locks remain changed and I've continued my regular schedule.

Still don't know really.