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09-04-2012, 12:40 PM
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#26 | | RS has made me the bitter person i am today!
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Originally Posted by supremematt85  If a girl ever cheats on me, I break up with her on the spot. I'd end a 5-10 year relationship on the spot including a marriage.. Infact I did. I ended a 5 year relationship with my slutbag ex-gf a month ago.
Found she was cheating when she was acting funny. Know her too well. She's been texting a lot too, and added a password to her phone. So I had my bro wait outside our place and tail her when ever she left the house. Found she was going over to some dudes house for 1-2 hours at a time when I was at work. Several times a week. I was full of rage. I had to resist from hitting her. Almost blew up. Confronted her, she admitted to it when I said I had my buddy tail her. I kept my cool, called her a slut and a cunt to her face, then kicked her out since the house is in my name only. Threw her shit on the lawn. Including her TV, computer, etc.. Didn't give a shit if she had no where to go. She was begging for forgiveness and I didn't even look her in the eye. I ignored she existed and kept putting her shit outside. When it was all gone I locked the door and started ripping up pictures of her and deleting her from all forms of communication. Got around 15 texts from her begging me to talk to her and saying she's sorry and it'll never happen again. Didn't reply to a single one, rejected all her calls. Told her mom and dad she cheated. Told her boss. All her friends. Then never spoke to anyone in her social circle again.
Got over her in 2 weeks with lots of hard drugs and liquor. 26 now, Wasted most of my youth with this slut. Who knows how long she was cheating for. Makes me sick. | You sir are a faggot ass bitch. Calling her boss, family and friends because she cheated on your loser ass? That's wack man.
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09-04-2012, 12:41 PM
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#27 | | RS has made me the bitter person i am today!
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Fuck I got trolled. Nevermind.
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09-04-2012, 01:04 PM
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#28 | | RS.net, helping ugly ppl have sex since 2001
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I know it's a troll post but...
Maybe you were a dirtbag boyfriend and that's why she cheated on you. From your story I can tell you're a dirtbag so it's likely that's why she cheated...
I'm not excusing the cheating but it just shows how weak the relationship was to begin with.
Last edited by JKam; 09-04-2012 at 01:40 PM.
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09-04-2012, 01:30 PM
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#29 | | SFICC-03*
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dealbreaker.
reason being, you'll always question her in the future and never really trust her again.
i cant be with someone when i always have to convince myself that shes being faithful whenever shes acting a little weird or hangs out with other guy friends.
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09-23-2012, 10:37 PM
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#30 | | NEWBIE ACCOUNT!
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yup, instant deal breaker, how can you trust the person ever again?
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09-24-2012, 01:12 PM
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#31 | | Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
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Deal breaker but I wouldn't be mad at them as much as being mad at myself for not catching on soon enough and poor judgement on my part. I hate blaming others for my own misery regardless of their actions.
That said, why wouldn't you leave after being cheated on? It's probably because the cheating significant other is a better catch than you are(example: you're a 5 he/she is an 8.5) or they're richer than you are, or you just need to be in a relationship to feel a sense of false pride, or lack of parenthood(mom&son/dad&daughter) may also be a factor.
No one wants to sleep with one eye open.
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09-24-2012, 07:02 PM
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#32 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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It's a trust issue.
There will always be the question in your head, is this an end run?
How long can you put up with that?
Cut the losses and move on.
Gotta have each other's back.
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09-24-2012, 07:43 PM
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#33 | | Wunder? Wonder?? Wander???
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Originally Posted by JKam I know it's a troll post but...
Maybe you were a dirtbag boyfriend and that's why she cheated on you. From your story I can tell you're a dirtbag so it's likely that's why she cheated...
I'm not excusing the cheating but it just shows how weak the relationship was to begin with. | Even if he was a dirtbag/douchebag/asshole/bastard etc. she couldve left herself anytime she wanted, shouldnt have stayed in the relationship to cheat
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09-24-2012, 09:13 PM
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#34 | | nuggets mod
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dealbreaker. and I see nothing wrong with telling her friends/boss/parents
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09-24-2012, 09:26 PM
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#35 | | My homepage has been set to RS
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Probably a deal breaker, but I don't believe in black/white situations for the most part, so it might take a bit of discretion.
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09-24-2012, 09:51 PM
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Dealbreaker. I won't be able to live with the fact that I'm constantly in doubt and suspicious. It would slowly consume me and eventually ruin the relationship.
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10-02-2012, 08:36 PM
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#37 | | I contribute to threads in the offtopic forum
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Originally Posted by supremematt85 If a girl ever cheats on me, I break up with her on the spot. I'd end a 5-10 year relationship on the spot including a marriage.. Infact I did. I ended a 5 year relationship with my slutbag ex-gf a month ago.
Found she was cheating when she was acting funny. Know her too well. She's been texting a lot too, and added a password to her phone. So I had my bro wait outside our place and tail her when ever she left the house. Found she was going over to some dudes house for 1-2 hours at a time when I was at work. Several times a week. I was full of rage. I had to resist from hitting her. Almost blew up. Confronted her, she admitted to it when I said I had my buddy tail her. I kept my cool, called her a slut and a cunt to her face, then kicked her out since the house is in my name only. Threw her shit on the lawn. Including her TV, computer, etc.. Didn't give a shit if she had no where to go. She was begging for forgiveness and I didn't even look her in the eye. I ignored she existed and kept putting her shit outside. When it was all gone I locked the door and started ripping up pictures of her and deleting her from all forms of communication. Got around 15 texts from her begging me to talk to her and saying she's sorry and it'll never happen again. Didn't reply to a single one, rejected all her calls. Told her mom and dad she cheated. Told her boss. All her friends. Then never spoke to anyone in her social circle again.
Got over her in 2 weeks with lots of hard drugs and liquor. 26 now, Wasted most of my youth with this slut. Who knows how long she was cheating for. Makes me sick. | +1 on how you handled the situation.
Another +1 if you made her your S&M buddy. Be like "you want forgiveness, you better behave." Pull out the leather whips and shit. Get your buddy involved and video tape them fucking. No, I'm just kidding.
In a relationship, it will make you look like a big man.
But in a marriage, not so much. It's better to calm it down and break it off in a manner way for your children's sake. Just imagine your kids watching you throw their mom's stuff out the lawn. It will have a very negative impact on their future growing up.
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10-07-2012, 07:54 AM
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#38 | | I STILL don't get it
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Total deal breaker, now that I've experienced it. I was cheated on in the past, and constantly being paranoid or thinking about what she's up to all the time just isn't worth it. Although it sucked to end a 4.5 year relationship, I felt so much less stressed when things ended.
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10-07-2012, 08:55 AM
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#39 | | Oh goodie, 5 posts already!
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Definately a deal breaker for me, I would not be able to trust her and I travel a fair amount for work.
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