True, I may have contributed to drama coming my way, I can handle it tho.
The new girl being crazy thing had nothing to do with the dinner with the ex, she had a weird issue one night and decided to text me a bunch of attention whoreing stuff, I gave her sympathy but holy shit, not the type of girl I wanna deal with when I'm not getting any from her.
As for the ex, what you guys are saying is my ex wants back with me and by agreeing to dinner I have somewhat fueled it. Sorry I was slow on that, lesson learned. I have zero desire to get back together with her.
So like you guys warned me of, I lost the new girl, but thats not really a bad thing here, and now I have to deal with my ex and that question, which might get messy.