Originally Posted by Mr.HappySilp (Post 8589024)

Meet gf for the first time (long distance). We had coffee at the hotel I was staying. Talk till around 11:30pm and she was going to go to her cousin place for the night (her cousin lives pretty near while her home is like 2hours away).

Anyways after 40mins or so she gives me a call saying her cousin isn't opening the door and seems like no one is home and came back to the hotel. I was shock but let her in anyways. She was crying and tired so I hug her and we started making out. She asked if she could stay for the night. I was not ready for this because this is our first meeting and also since this is in China I am not sure what to make out of the suitation (Is on the news where people might drug you and get your organs and sell it or even bust into the room while you and this girl is having sex and basically forces you to pay a large sum of money or some shit).

After a few mins of deciding her mom call and you could tell it wasn't going pretty basically with her mom saying she needs to go home now and is not safe etc etc..... basically her cousin was just sleeping and now she is awake. So I suggested I would take a taxi with her to her cousin's place and make sure she is safe. To be honest I was pretty relief I got her to her cousin place. I wasn't sure if she stayed what would happen and honestly I was so dead tired after my flight I want to sleep. Guess I did the right thing because her parents liked me for making sure their daughter safe and not take advantage of her. But the truth is I was more worry about my personal safety than anything else lol.

Originally Posted by 6o4__boi (Post 8588935)

I got a few derp moments but this one stands out for me the most.

Back in hs i was dating this chick on/off.
Anyway, we were having a fight of the century moment and called shit off for a few weeks.
At the time, pretty sure it was done but still kinda liked her.
A few days after, girl i've known from way back texts me and asks why we never chill anymore so we text back and forth the next little while. She's pretty hot, girl next door attitude and i didn't go for her earlier on in hs because she was tight with one of my best buddies and i'm pretty sure he liked her. She tells me shes in some whatever special academic program on the island for a month, tells me to come visit if i can cus she gets pretty bored in her dorm (i lived in van).
Meanwhile, on/off gf texts me and starts apologizing and suggests that maybe we could still work things out, give her time, space yada yada yada. I'm like whatever let me know when you're not a bitch and we'll talk.
I plan on making the trip to the island to see her for a weekend. On/off gf comes over the day before i bounce, we chat, kinda make out but didn't really do shit cus she says it still doesn't feel right, blah blah blah. So she leaves, at this point, i know we're still off.
Go to the island the next day. Spent the first day just chatting and catching up (we went to different schools and rarely saw each other since the early days of hs). Asked her if shes with anyone she said nope, and she asked about my on/off gf since we've been at it for a while. Told her its messed up and probably over. Anyways, we get to talkin about where i'm gonna sleep for the night, cus the dorm has like a single bed, and a small armchair. She said she didn't mind sharing the bed.
Receive a text from on/off gf, says shes ready to talk when i'm free, things look rosy, blah, blah. I ignore it somewhat but it was on the back of my head.
We go for dinner, chat some more, figure we're connecting really well. Get to bedtime, i'm lying down and shes lying beside me. Kinda silent for a bit then we started making out. Was getting hot and heavy but for some reason, at the last moment, i chickened out. We were pretty much naked. I knew she wanted it and i did too but for whatever dumb fucking reason my head wasn't in it. For some reason it felt like i was cheating even though i knew i wasn't. I can't describe it but whenever i think back its always like, what the fuck was i thinking then. I had it, then and there. So we make out for a bit, before it gets serious i pull some dumb excuse that i wasn't sure if this was a good idea and all that shit, leave it for now, see how it goes later. She doesn't resist but we stop, there was silence for a while, kissed her good night and slept with our backs to each other. I get blue balls for being a dumb fucking moron. Breakfast was awkward as fawkkk. So i ended up leaving earlier than scheduled. Was hoping to catch the last sailing, heck, i was hoping to skip the first day of school if all went well but i ended up leaving early cus it felt awkward.
Kinda texted for a little bit more after that but we ended up losing touch and haven't seen her since. Saw on/off gf after i came back (blue balls relieved), we tried it again for a few months but ultimately didn't work out cus she's a bitch.

Anyway, every now and then i've always wondered what if. It was probably one of those missed opportunities.

Originally Posted by 6o4__boi (Post 8590419)

why?

Originally Posted by XplicitLuder (Post 8596168)

Thats when i get this really bad BO coming from her and im like no thanks jeff , peace charlie.

Originally Posted by yray (Post 8800764)

For evolove :qq

Originally Posted by chickenugget69 (Post 8204878)

I don't know how to "get it on" with a girl LOL.

1) I was in photography class in high school. I was a teacher's assistant in that class, so I wasn't really apart of the class. My female friend had a free block and she would always come chill in that class and help out with whatever I had to do. One day my teacher takes all the students outside to take photos (except for the girl and I). We were in the "dark room" where photographs get made.
A little note: the girl just broke up with her boyfriend like two weeks ago. Anyways, we do our thing and she starts getting sorta touchy. "i'm so sleepyy" lies on my sh

1. oulder ect. At one point I say "it's so quiet it's kinda weird, usually it's so noisy in here" and then she says "yeah.. so quiet.. you could like.. make out in here" and then gives me that 'look' with a slight smile. I just laughed and kept doing what i was doing.. after that she stopped getting so touchy
   
2. 2) College: Another girl who just broke up with her boyfriend.. We went to the gym together and went back to my place. She says she's really tired and starts sleeping on my bed. She says she feels too hot after the work out (it was summer) and takes off her clothes only wearing a tank top and her undies (or reallllyy short shorts, i dont know anymore lol). Crawls into my bed. I was looking at stuff on youtube and she's like, "i can't see that far, bring the laptop here :)" So we're both on the bed. under the sheets. she's half naked. . . . and i don't do anything >_<
   
3. Now it's not like I'm afraid or anything it's just i REALLY had no idea at the time that these girls might've had any sexual intent. I just figured.. oh,, i guess this is normal for them. Anyway I was just wondering what to do to "initiate" whatever might've happened LOL :D. This happened once more recently, not gonna post cuz y'all get the point hah
4. I never really made out with anyone other than girls who I was in a relationship with , where you start kissing them out of nowhere it's okay - but when it's a friend it's completely different. What do you guys do in these situations :P - thanks!