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Old 04-18-2013, 04:43 PM   #26
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Text her and tell her you have another gift for her.
Then get her a big black dildo.
But seriously I don't get why you didn't text or call her shortly after to go out again?
Seems like you went home and thought you had her when you didn't.
Like everyone else said, don't buy girls gifts that you are not in a relationship with.
You might as well give me your money. The return will be the same.

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Old 04-18-2013, 11:19 PM   #27
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Text her and tell her you have another gift for her.
Then get her a big black dildo.
But seriously I don't get why you didn't text or call her shortly after to go out again?
Seems like you went home and thought you had her when you didn't.
Like everyone else said, don't buy girls gifts that you are not in a relationship with.
You might as well give me your money. The return will be the same.
the reason I didnt text her after our meet is because I didnt want to be that "needy" or "creepy" dude as some users have named me above.

I wanted to see if she would call me but she didn't which is why I made this thread to see if it has happened to anyone

People always say that "people these days don't appreciate the good things you do for them", and this is an example of it
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Old 04-19-2013, 07:59 AM   #28
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the reason I didnt text her after our meet is because I didnt want to be that "needy" or "creepy" dude as some users have named me above.

I wanted to see if she would call me but she didn't which is why I made this thread to see if it has happened to anyone

People always say that "people these days don't appreciate the good things you do for them", and this is an example of it
So...you were playing a game with her and then came here wanting everyone to pat your back and tell you that you are a good guy and she is a bitch.

o ok.
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Old 04-19-2013, 09:39 AM   #29
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You should have never given her any gifts to begin with. A small souvenir would have sufficed...If you wanted to play it cool, this should not affect you. You put yourself in a situation where you are thinking about it way too much and she thought of it as a nice gesture from a friend. However, if she found out...then to her you would be "needy" and "creepy". Ultimately leading to your massive .
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Old 04-19-2013, 09:45 AM   #30
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OP, she's banging somebody else.

sloots gonna sloot.
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Old 04-19-2013, 09:52 AM   #31
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It all depends Don't expect to get anything in return for you when give out and you will be a much much happier person. Although I don't buy presents unless is birthdya, weddings, or I been seeing the person for at least a few dates(usually just flowers first).

If the girl is into you, or acutally cares aobut you, she won't expect you to get her anything expensive but rather just spending time with you is more than enough.
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Old 04-21-2013, 11:51 AM   #32
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I would suggest texting and asking if she would like to go for dinner as "friends". Bish got a ride? If so ask her to meet you at the establishment. Don't show up, and when she calls/text's asking wtf you at?

Reply " out for dinner , cheers "

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Old 04-21-2013, 11:14 PM   #33
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People always say that "people these days don't appreciate the good things you do for them", and this is an example of it
I think you are way too impressed with yourself for buying a bish a scarf. She may have really appreciated you doing an actual good thing for her, like a romantic night out, or making her cum a couple times. You bought her something with expectations of a return, thats your bad. Lots of people don't appreciate things being bought for them, because it implies that you might think their affection can be bought, especially when they know you want to fuck them.
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or making her cum a couple times.
Winner!

A woman will like you if you make her feel good - whether emotionally, physically, or a combination of the two.
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Old 04-22-2013, 01:41 PM   #35
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I bought a guy a Hugo Boss bag for Christmas and he wasn't even my nigga. The trick with gift giving is you have to expect absolutely nothing in return so you don't set yourself up for disappointment. You gave her gifts because you care about her but that doesn't entitle her to grovel because you decided to do so.

If you're not getting a proper thank you or getting laid even a little bit, you must be doing something wrong. Maybe you're eager to receive in return attitude comes off and she can feel it, which is a bad thing.
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The trick with gift giving is you have to expect absolutely nothing in return so you don't set yourself up for disappointment.
Werd. It's not really a true gift if there's an expectation of any sort attached to it.

The thing is, this practice is quite common from what I've observed growing up in Vancouver and I too was guilty of it myself when I was a teenager and a bit in my early 20's.

When you have NO game, a lot of people can only resort to buying ones affection. Whether it be buying it with goods and items, or fake chivalry, it doesn't matter, it's really their only avenue, or course of action.
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Old 04-29-2013, 12:55 PM   #38
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she threw the gift in the corner of her room, piled up on top of all the other gifts other men have given her.
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