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Whats more important: The Journey or the Destination?
I dunno if it's the right forum, but I've constantly get hit in the face with this. I first heard about it when I was listening to Chris Hadfield's book, and I constantly see it brought up in other forms of popular culture (Tv shows, movies etc)
destination MEANS nothing if you don't have the journey to back up your stories.
If you got a spoon fed your whole life with a Lambo, a 1 million dollar apartment, that's great and all and I have NOTHING against you. But for a person who has busted his chops to EARN a living to pay for his first intergra with his cold hard cash; all the way to working 2 jobs paying for rent and finally has his own apartment will have 10000 more stories to tell on getting there.
Think about it this way, you wouldn't just want to one pump a hot chick and blow your load. You want to enjoy that shit, ride it out, make it last so that when you do blow your load all over her tits, it'll be fucking amazing.
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a destination may not always be defined, but a journey and what you learn along the way will define yourself in some way... therefore I think the journey is more important
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I'm gonna have to go with destination is more important. Everything that we do right now, we're doing it to get somewhere. Your mortgage, your car lease/finance, education, career, marriage.
What if you're paying your mortgage but you never come to the term where you finish and own a house. In the end you lose your house. Is the journey still more important then?
You sign a 3 year lease/finance. At 2 year 11 months, you cannot pay anymore and your vehicle is repossessed. Is the journey still important then?
You work your ass off for a position, you dedicated your time, effort, and maybe some money into getting this position. In an announcement, your manager announces that Peter gets this position. Still hanging onto another chance of advancement to a position that you're not aiming for. Is the journey still important then?
You're got married and vowed that you will live together forever, 20 years later, you two have children together but are divorced. You're 45+. Is the journey still important then?
EDIT - Did I mention the all time famous friend-zone? You chase this girl for years and you get friend-zoned. Is the journey still important?
I'm gonna have to go with destination is more important. Everything that we do right now, we're doing it to get somewhere. Your mortgage, your car lease/finance, education, career, marriage.
What if you're paying your mortgage but you never come to the term where you finish and own a house. In the end you lose your house. Is the journey still more important then?
You sign a 3 year lease/finance. At 2 year 11 months, you cannot pay anymore and your vehicle is repossessed. Is the journey still important then?
You work your ass off for a position, you dedicated your time, effort, and maybe some money into getting this position. In an announcement, your manager announces that Peter gets this position. Still hanging onto another chance of advancement to a position that you're not aiming for. Is the journey still important then?
You're got married and vowed that you will live together forever, 20 years later, you two have children together but are divorced. You're 45+. Is the journey still important then?
^^Totally agree with you. No Journey without a destination first. That should be most clear in any persons mind. Set a concrete goal first and find any means to achieve said goal!!!
if the destination was less important, then you would never finish the journey.
the destination is always more important... especially if you reach it.
if you made it, then whatever happened before, you are proud of, but you're happier that you reached your goal. the journey was just... a means of getting there.
if you never made it, then of course the journey is important, because it's the only thing you achieved lol.
and that chris hadfield comic is bullshit. of course it's all cool cuz at the end he's an astronaut.
but what if at the end he was a bum. lol then the whole comic would suck right?
both are important, but the goal is always more important. the end game. the bucket of gold at the end of the rainbow.
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if the destination was important... Then isn't the destination.....more important cause you decided to trek the journey 
