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12-15-2013, 08:48 PM
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Originally Posted by xmisstrinh  Buddy, listen to me. I had a friend, 22, married a 34 year old guy a few years back. People kept asking me "is that her dad?"
edit: she was deeply, deeply disturbed, might I add. Although she seemed mature, blah blah blah... if you *really* knew her, she was fuken psycho. She wouldn't put out unless he married her. Just sayin. | Your buddies a fucken idiot marring someone before he even knew her.... My longest relationship is 12 years, I know when a women is/isnt crazy and no I don't look like the chicks dad cause she looks like a women and not a child which kinda helps 
Still cant read her at all, just going to play is cool and if things happen they will and if they don't no big deal either. I take it as a challenge in a way ant not only that whats the fun in a easy chase 
Still unsure if I should send her flowers on Tuesday tho lol
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12-15-2013, 08:52 PM
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12-16-2013, 03:53 PM
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Kinda off topic...but not really.
I think it is completely stupid when people don't think there is an age difference from early 20s to their early 30s. Men and women always justify the question of "does age matter" with the reason of, "She was so mature for her age," or "I was mature for my age."
At 20, I was still in the mindset of I was going to get married by 23/24, have kids by 25 and be happily married and shit. I was definitely going to be that young wife and a cool hip mom despite thinking of all the troubles and issues LIFE would hand me along the way because..well.."I am such an old soul and I am so mature for my age."
I dated guys in their late 20s, early 30s (even one with 2 kids) during that age (20) and let me tell you it was hard to continue anything past the dating part of it because we were just in different phases in our lives. I put myself in such emotional drama that now when I look back on it...I feel EMBARASSED for all the shit I've done and said.
----I'm closing in on 27 and I can tell you I can wait another 4-5 years before getting married despite being in a long term relationship because there's just so much adulthood throws at you. A career, financial obligations, finding a home, meshing of 2 lives (including their family/friends etc), still figuring out who you are etc etc..
For this girl to be 22 and you 31...I doubt it will end up the way you want it to. I know so many girls around that age (from my brother) and I'm telling you....chicks nowadays are even more immature than we were back in the day. BITCHES BE CRAY! SERIOUSLY!
But all in all, it's up to you. Your experience may differ from others so with that said...please let us know what happens!
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12-18-2013, 08:58 AM
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Originally Posted by miss_crayon ----I'm closing in on 27 and I can tell you I can wait another 4-5 years before getting married despite being in a long term relationship because there's just so much adulthood throws at you. A career, financial obligations, finding a home, meshing of 2 lives (including their family/friends etc), still figuring out who you are etc etc..
For this girl to be 22 and you 31...I doubt it will end up the way you want it to. I know so many girls around that age (from my brother) and I'm telling you....chicks nowadays are even more immature than we were back in the day. BITCHES BE CRAY! SERIOUSLY!
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12-18-2013, 11:53 AM
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Sent her flowers yesterday didn't even put a name on the card. Just told her it was me since she was so confused and a bit creeped out about it. Hopefully her dad doesn't murder me for doing that since I haven't said shit to him and us two even went for lunch together alone on Sunday... Did I mention hes a hunter and has lots of guns.....
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12-18-2013, 12:22 PM
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12-18-2013, 02:21 PM
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can't give any more advice that wasn't given. Keep us posted. All the best!
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12-18-2013, 03:45 PM
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he's red in the face just this moment preparing his firearm with the shaved off serial number
"  Mother Fucker Thinks He's Going To Fuck My Daughter "  but i think your in the clear since it's Xmas.
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12-18-2013, 04:31 PM
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What did she say about the flowers when she found out it was you who sent them?
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12-18-2013, 06:30 PM
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She laughed and said thanks and asked why I didn't say something earlier, both colours were her favourites and she really likes them. Still can't read shit from her drives me fucken crazy but the challenge is great if you can even call it that right now lol
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12-18-2013, 07:14 PM
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Wait despite the info given to you you're still going to pursue this chick?
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12-18-2013, 08:04 PM
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I did the most I'm going to do, if something comes from it yes I wi pursue it but I made things known with out offending anyone which is key.
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12-18-2013, 08:44 PM
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are you SURE she gets that you dig her?
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12-18-2013, 09:00 PM
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If flowers ain't enough then I got nothing lol
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12-18-2013, 09:10 PM
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I guess that is true....but some people (regardless of age and gender) don't "get it".
I had suspected my SO had feelings for me for a long time but it wasn't until we both admitted it verbally that our relationship progressed.
I'd say...just come right out. Ask her out on a date. Nothing big...just dinner...but make sure she understands it is more that just a "friend" dinner.
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12-19-2013, 12:07 PM
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As long as you didn't talk to her dad about nasty sh!t you did with girls in the past, I'd say go for it.
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12-19-2013, 12:35 PM
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Originally Posted by MasonJar I guess that is true....but some people (regardless of age and gender) don't "get it".
I had suspected my SO had feelings for me for a long time but it wasn't until we both admitted it verbally that our relationship progressed.
I'd say...just come right out. Ask her out on a date. Nothing big...just dinner...but make sure she understands it is more that just a "friend" dinner. | She is one of these girls that might not get it but I think she does and if she doesn't I'm sure someone would of said something to her for sure. Quote:
Originally Posted by TheSalesman As long as you didn't talk to her dad about nasty sh!t you did with girls in the past, I'd say go for it. | ummmmmmmmmm | |
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12-20-2013, 12:00 PM
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This isn't poker... Stop trying to read her. Be up front about it, so it's clear.
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01-03-2014, 06:23 PM
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Any New Year's "oops" stories?
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01-04-2014, 01:32 AM
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Shes the type that doesn't know what she really wants right now so I'm not going to go with it any further. Gotta stay away from these young ones!!
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01-04-2014, 05:07 AM
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Thats a huge age gap... if people dont know you 2, they think your the sugar daddy.. just saying...
I think 6 years or less would be good.. 8 would be my max.. anything else, is just plane weird... And I think most girls around that age would expect guys to buy/pay for everything and expects to be treated like a princess.. putting that Pu$$y on a pedestal.. but I wouldnt say all girls that age..
If your really good friends with her dad, wouldnt it be weird to hang out? and especially after a breakup....
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01-04-2014, 08:07 AM
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^ I agree. 8 yrs is really a lot.
say you're 33 and the chick is 27, that's already one generation gap.
If it was 8 yrs, then you'll be in a tough loop. 25 yr old girls are clubbing, working like a 16 dollar job making ends meet. your entertainment spendings are diff. She's jumping all over everyone trying to go fine dining at the taste vancouver events, while you're 33 and you're telling yourself, you have already been to all the places already and the shit service + shit crowds, you might as well go during normal working hours.
you also go vacation gap, diff saving habits etc
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01-04-2014, 09:06 PM
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I would like to say her dad was ok with me dating her as well, who would of thought lol
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01-04-2014, 10:16 PM
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haha damn, he probably wants you to mature her up a bit.
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01-04-2014, 11:25 PM
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he just wants her to be with a good respectful guy that will treat her well.
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