Premature Ejaculation

[Hehe]

I think it's all about relaxing and don't just hump all the way until the point you are nearly cum?

I had a similar problem when I first started having sexual relationships, and it's mainly because I was way too horny. Now I take my time with sex, try different positions... etc.

And if you happen to time yourself, you can realize you don't do much past the average time (about 4min for men, 10~20 for women). But the benefit to men is that, for us to reach the orgasm, it's usually 4~7min on the actual intercourse (non-stop humping) and anything that interrupts the "non-stop" motion would prolong that.

[Jegz]

Pop an M and cialus. Youll last for hours.

[SkinnyPupp]

I have an unrelated question

When and why did MDMA stop being called "ecstacy" or "E" or "X" in the 90's and up, and start getting called "molly" or "M"?

I know this makes me seem old, but I don't get the name change.. Did other drugs change their names too?

[2 n r]

x is a mixture of mdma and some other junk
mdma is "pure"

and also google definition:
MDMA is an empathogenic drug of the phenethylamine and amphetamine classes of drugs. MDMA has become widely known as "ecstasy", usually referring to its street pill form, although this term may also include the presence of possible adulterants

[SkinnyPupp]

Originally Posted by 2 n r

x is a mixture of mdma and some other junk
mdma is "pure"

and also google definition:
MDMA is an empathogenic drug of the phenethylamine and amphetamine classes of drugs. MDMA has become widely known as "ecstasy", usually referring to its street pill form, although this term may also include the presence of possible adulterants

That doesn't really answer the question, as when you buy X you are (or should) know what's in it (if anything) other than MDMA

Just wondering where and why the name was changed. Other than pop stars use it in their songs (unless that's the reason)

[aznkev03]

Nowadays M can have just as much "junk" as E. I think the streets just needed a name for the powder form of the drug, since that is now what is trending.
AFAIK E refers to the pressed pill and M refers to the powder form.
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[cruz-in]

i had it a while back... it was stress though.

[Jmac]

I assume you're using a condom. If so, try a small amount of desensitizing (numbing) lubricant inside the condom.

If you're not using a condom, use a condom. I last a lot longer with a condom than without.

[mr_chin]

Originally Posted by Razor Ramon HG

This situation is frustrating for me, and to a degree I guess my girlfriend. It's frustrating because I'm not doing anything different than what I used to do with others, and I'm not sure where I am going wrong.

I don't think it's performance anxiety.. I always give her an orgasm with my tongue or fingers, so she's always satisfied. But I guess the lingering thought in the back of my head that I might finish early that could result in me finishing earlier.

I don't have the same problem with blowjobs, just when we have intercourse.

Everyone mentions to fap prior to meeting her, but I do spend a lot of time with her and we often crash at her house at night. Even though we have sex quite regularly, it's hard to anticipate when for a fap. And alcohol is a bit tricky since I can't rely on it to keep up my stamina, although we did both get drunk last night and had some wild sex, hahaha.

I will look up kegel exercises, and try some of the other tips posted here.

I don't know why, but for me, if I do it fast and hard, I tend to last longer.

The mentality of just giving it to her overcomes the feeling of wanting to finish.

If I go slow and consistent however, I can finish in less than 5 min while concentrating and focusing on visual whether it's her tits, face, eyes, whatever. If I'm busy nailing her, it's not going to come plus I'm sort of desensitizing myself.

[wyuzz]

I never thought I'll have to face this issue until recently when I was trying to get it in, I was able to get an erection but once the rubber goes on top it deflates like running your tires over a rusty nail

[SkinnyPupp]

Originally Posted by wyuzz

I never thought I'll have to face this issue until recently when I was trying to get it in, I was able to get an erection but once the rubber goes on top it deflates like running your tires over a rusty nail

OP has the opposite problem as you

[Ri2]

First off, props to her for inducing this problem for you the first time in your life. She must be dope at what she's doing.

How many times a week would you say you guys have sex? Do you try taking breaks/going on a time out inbetween? When I feel like he's gonna finish too fast I put him on a time out, whatever I'm/we're doing just stops completely and we take a couple minutes to get our shit back together.

Try desensitizing lube/cream if you can and see how that helps. Penis rings also help.

On another note, your sexual performance may just be changing with age. If this is the case, accept the limited stroke number you have and just work with it. Put her in like 9 different positions in the 5 mins you have and she'll feel like you just killed it hahaha. I wouldn't see a chick having a problem with this if she is genuinely satisfied from everything else (tongue,hands,foreplay etc.). Ask her if it bothers her, if she says no honestly then I wouldn't worry too much about it.

[hal0g0dv2]

just lick her butthole
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[BoostedBB6]

You say that you dont to anything different with her than any other girls you have been with. Perhaps you should look at doing something else, something that you are not used to. Something that keeps you thinking about what you are doing, not the end result.

If all else fails, practice up on that tongue technique....

[MelonBoy]

Originally Posted by SkinnyPupp

That doesn't really answer the question, as when you buy X you are (or should) know what's in it (if anything) other than MDMA

Just wondering where and why the name was changed. Other than pop stars use it in their songs (unless that's the reason)

Generally from what i've been told (I asked the same question lol)

The general difference between M and X is the potency/high.
Like the guy above said, by definition its suppose to be more "pure" but general sense.

M = generally easier high, more control, cleaner come down, and you don't feel as "dirty/shitty" the next day. (usually a powder form in a pill)

X = generally speaking you should expect to be a lot higher then taking M, less controlled, heavier come down, and apparently you feel very "dirty/shitty" the next day. (usually a pressed cap/pill)

I could be totally wrong. This is what i've been told...




Anyways back on to topic.. kind of.
I have the opposite of P.ejact. There are time when I'm trying to get off but cant.. Ill be going at it for 30mins+ but won't bust or takes along time. Anyone else have this problem?

[smoothie.]

its in your head.

this girl must be a keeper

[Vansterdam]

[jasonturbo]

OP, that's hardly a problem, I find it damn near impossible to bust!!!!! I wish I had your "problem"!

Straight up, for me to get off, I have to be like slamming her doggie, lights on, STARRING at her butt hole, she's playing with my balls, meanwhile in the back of my mind I have to imagine like 2 midget ladyboy's trying to play airtight with me, and the humidity in the room has to be just right and there can't be any distractions... and maybe I'll bust. Anything goes wrong, it's over, doesn't matter what it is, could be the fucking cat across the room rolled over from his stomach to his back and I didn't even see/hear it, and BAM, I lost it, game over.

So even though I can appreciate you are frustrated, I think my "problem" is much worse than yours.

I am 100% serious, porn abuse and my early 20's has completely ruined me.

I'm sorry i can't offer you any advice.

[zilley]

I dont see why you would want to bust one out first before going into sex.
your dick is half sore during the 2nd time.

personally I find cardio helps, its actually a big difference for me.
If I slack off and eat like shit then I perform like shit, but when I eat clean and workout hard, then I perform like a champ.

just personal experience.

[320icar]

^^ that actually makes a big difference. I found hitting the gym 5 days a week boosted my drive and performance. Funny enough, doing hot yoga for a month made me perform much better . Not sure why
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[jasonturbo]

Originally Posted by 320icar

^^ that actually makes a big difference. I found hitting the gym 5 days a week boosted my drive and performance. Funny enough, doing hot yoga for a month made me perform much better . Not sure why
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Cause you were slamming yoga sloots?

[320icar]

Lol. Go to hot yoga, and you find they are all 40+ year old women.

The only hot sexy women in yoga pants have never actually gone to a yoga class in their life
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[Razor Ramon HG]

Just an update:

Doing much better these days. I feel a lot more confident and it's not so much of a worry anymore.

I tried using the extended pleasure condoms, but it just desensitized me so much I felt nothing.

I remember a previous thread on porn and no fap. Been following it cutting them both out, and I believe it has contributed greatly. In addition, I've been waking up more regularly (school) and have started hitting the gym again with a weight lifting regime with some cardio.

Thanks to those that didn't treat this as a joke thread. Your replies helped.

[mqin]

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[anxiety]

she's pretty hot, I can confirm. Just not sure if it's her real face since 99% of Korean girls had plastic surgeries