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03-09-2026, 04:51 PM
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#351 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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Originally Posted by Gerbs  here's an interesting new topic
how do you know a girl is putting in effort vs showing up | Usually you can tell by their messages. Are they short? Repetitive? Lacking substance? Mostly talking about herself?
All red flags. Don't waste $4 on that town bike.
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03-09-2026, 07:04 PM
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#352 | | OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
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And to add to that, does she initiate conversations? Ask you questions that to genuinely get to know you? If she knows what your fav food is, does she randomly show up at your doorstep with it?
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03-09-2026, 07:08 PM
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Does she know you're on RS? 
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03-09-2026, 09:26 PM
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#354 | | OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
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Originally Posted by GS8 Usually you can tell by their messages. Are they short? Repetitive? Lacking substance? Mostly talking about herself?
All red flags. Don't waste $4 on that town bike. | what if it's well thought messages but 1x a day!
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03-09-2026, 09:52 PM
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#355 | | Performance Moderator
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Maybe it takes her all day to write out one cohesive thought
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03-09-2026, 10:33 PM
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#356 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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Originally Posted by Gerbs what if it's well thought messages but 1x a day! | If she's good with her words, like making genuinely witty comebacks and retorts on-the-fly, those are green flags.
But it shouldn't take a day. If she's interested, she'll actually invest time in the conversation.
And if they ever reply with just 'indeed', go and dropkick them.
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03-10-2026, 06:24 AM
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#357 | | OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
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Originally Posted by Gerbs what if it's well thought messages but 1x a day! | If they're into you, they will make it easy for you.
They will come to you and find ways to spend time with you. They'll message you multiple times a day.
It's not hard, guys.
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03-10-2026, 06:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Tapioca It's not hard, guys. | I think this is where you are wrong. We had to create a thread to discuss just this topic alone! 
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03-10-2026, 07:20 AM
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#359 | | SFICC-03*
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when i was like mid 20s i was attracted to a girl that basically showed no interest in me, so i figured that i would try to be that persistent dude, something i never really did before.
i only messaged her 1-2x a day, but for like 2 weeks. she always responded kinda neutral or positive so i kept going. eventually we did date a bit and became friends after it didnt work out.
so ya i guess some weirdos do message only once a day, but it's not a healthy start of a two way relationship. if two people actually like each other its just obvious beyond what can be explained here..
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03-10-2026, 07:48 AM
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#360 | | OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
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Originally Posted by 68style Maybe it takes her all day to write out one cohesive thought | it's not cohesive nor that serious haha lmao Quote:
Originally Posted by unit when i was like mid 20s i was attracted to a girl that basically showed no interest in me, so i figured that i would try to be that persistent dude, something i never really did before.
i only messaged her 1-2x a day, but for like 2 weeks. she always responded kinda neutral or positive so i kept going. eventually we did date a bit and became friends after it didnt work out.
so ya i guess some weirdos do message only once a day, but it's not a healthy start of a two way relationship. if two people actually like each other its just obvious beyond what can be explained here.. | All my best relationships/situationships stemmed from high interest!
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03-10-2026, 08:13 AM
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#361 | | 屎忽鬼
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Revscene turning into Incelscene
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03-10-2026, 08:13 AM
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#362 | | Performance Moderator
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I mean… that seems obvious lol (Gerbs comment not the incel one… altho……… )
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03-10-2026, 08:47 AM
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Have you tried negging?
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03-10-2026, 10:17 AM
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| Negging ("to neg", meaning "negative feedback") is an act of emotional manipulation whereby a person makes a deliberate backhanded compliment or otherwise flirtatious remark to another person to undermine their confidence and attempt to engender in them a need for the manipulator's approval.[1] The term was coined and prescribed by pickup artists.[1]
Gerbs, are you a qualified pickup artist?
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03-10-2026, 10:23 AM
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#365 | | RS.net, helping ugly ppl have sex since 2001
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so this was unqiue. I did exactly what you all did.. are you engaged and are they responding to text.. 1 text a day is gay given people spend 10 hrs on IG and phones.
Before I met my wife, we woudl go on dates, but very lack of responses. Spurt of a moment then stops and repeat. I stayed in the game and after 4-5 dates, called her out. If you're not interested, i'm ok. I'm NOT here to make friends, i got tons of buddies and can careless I was 41 and she's 38 - i was just being honest and respectful of your eggs since you say you want to get married and have a kid.
I joked giving the dates we go on - 1 date every 3 weeks - I guess I'll see you in 3 weeks. Didn't believe me and then she went back to text and mapped out on her calendar and then ramped up on our dates and we become more steady.
Best of luck to you. 99% a girl doesn't give effort, peace outtttttttt. If you define the relationship, and they still do that.. then game over.
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03-10-2026, 10:31 AM
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#366 | | RS controls my life!
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Originally Posted by 6793026 Spurt of a moment | 
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03-10-2026, 11:42 AM
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#367 | | 屎忽鬼
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well you spurted her good.
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03-10-2026, 03:50 PM
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#368 | | JDMEK9Mod | DogWhisperer
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I know we aren't talking about apps right now, nor encouraging the use of them but I thought I'd share some things I deduced after years of using them
1. If her profile pics are all at angles, full make up, and/or always has filters on, she's hiding her true self. The more honest girls will often times include 1-2 photos of herself without any of this crap. They'll complain about guys using old photos in their profiles (valid point usually) but then deceive you with all of the above.
2. If all of her photos are all group pics and she doesn't specify which one she is, she's the ugly one 
3. The most eye-rolling quote they add to their profiles is "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best". To me, it's akin to girls almost universally hating pictures of men holding a fish.
4. If they don't include a single photo of themselves from head to toe, they are absolutely hiding something.
5. Perhaps my biggest annoyance is girls who post photos where you can ONLY see the back of their head. Girl, I ain't here to date the back of your head. If you can't even post a single photo of your face, apps are 100% not for you.
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03-10-2026, 05:47 PM
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#369 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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Originally Posted by CivicBlues Have you tried negging?
/s | Throw on some Ed Hardy jeans, Affliction t-shirt and Von Dutch hat while you're at it
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03-11-2026, 07:50 AM
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#370 | | WOAH! i think Vtec just kicked in!
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Originally Posted by spoon.ek9
5. Perhaps my biggest annoyance is girls who post photos where you can ONLY see the back of their head. Girl, I ain't here to date the back of your head. If you can't even post a single photo of your face, apps are 100% not for you.
| Ya. I always report those. And profiles where there is only one picture of themselves.
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03-11-2026, 08:10 AM
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#371 | | RS.net, helping ugly ppl have sex since 2001
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Originally Posted by spoon.ek9
1. If her profile pics are all at angles, full make up, and/or always has filters on, she's hiding her true self. The more honest girls will often times include 1-2 photos of herself without any of this crap. They'll complain about guys using old photos in their profiles (valid point usually) but then deceive you with all of the above.
| Few years ago, i asked my friend and they said if you date mainland china 99.9999% of the girls are using filters. I'm sorry but NO ONE EVER takes pics without filters 
This was easily few years ago so i can't image now...
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03-11-2026, 10:05 AM
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#372 | | OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
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Gerbs, are you a qualified pickup artist? | i am a qualified autistic retard
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I love all the dudes simping over the skinny filter girls 
What a day and time to be alive as a woman:
Take pic or video > slap on face / body filter > say your single online > RAKE in money
Although their days are numbered, i see way too many AI profiles of above now (dudes raking in other dudes money lol)
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03-11-2026, 11:53 AM
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#374 | | 屎忽鬼
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i dont know about that. i wouldnt pay these digital cunts a dime. maybe thats more of your generation thing.
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03-11-2026, 02:13 PM
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#375 | | JDMEK9Mod | DogWhisperer
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Yeah I don't understand this culture of simping at all. Why are dudes donating large sums of money to girls online when their chances of ever dating them is 0%?
Then you also get guys who lose their shit, start stalking, and some who even get close enough to cause psychological and/or bodily harm to these girls. It's insane. These men actually develop a sense of ownership on these girls because they feel like their money somehow grants them that.
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