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11-03-2010, 07:53 PM
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| Ways to Ask a Girl Out Thread.
how do you ask a girl out? post your stories.
EDIT: i meant to be your gf lmao..
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11-03-2010, 07:58 PM
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#2 | | I *Fwap* *Fwap* *Fwap* to RS
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Sounds more like a marriage proposal.
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11-03-2010, 07:59 PM
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#3 | | RS has made me the bitter person i am today!
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"hey do you want to go out?"
seemed to work for me
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11-03-2010, 08:09 PM
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#4 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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Originally Posted by 737!  how do you ask a girl out? post your stories.
as for myself i usually ask girls out by giving them flowers and going on one knee in front of her friends.. never done anything creative yet. | WTF! What if the girl says "NO", then you just wasted money on flowers and got nothing in return LOL.
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11-03-2010, 08:21 PM
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11-03-2010, 09:39 PM
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i was taught to never get on my knee unless proposing
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11-03-2010, 09:54 PM
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#7 | | Diagonally parked in a parallel universe
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Um are you serious OP?
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11-03-2010, 09:58 PM
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#8 | | Female Driven
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mmm...i think i'd be pretty freaked out if a guy randomly went down on one knee and gave me flowers UNLESS its my boyfriend proposing to me..otherwise its kinda..creepy
AND you wouldnt wanna waste money and embarrass yourself if the girl says no right? just a thought. guys usually just ask if i wanna hang out or go for a dinner..or simply just by asking.."hey you wanna go for a date?"
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11-03-2010, 10:04 PM
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#9 | | I answer every Emotion with an emoticon
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you watch way way way too much korean dramas...
I am assuming you are an awesome friend of her and just go in and say, "hey, you wanna go hang out sometime?" If she says yes, then BAM, you are on your way to go on FB and ask her out and say "hey, are u busy friday" etc
I'm assuming you're in high school.....
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11-03-2010, 10:54 PM
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#10 | | I subscribe to Revscene
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my buddy is a pick up artist.. he said hes addicted to doing it.. whenever he sees a decent looking girl he will strike up a convo, i wish I was like that but I dont have the guts lol
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11-03-2010, 10:59 PM
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#11 | | Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
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^ haha i'm like that, but not to every decent girl. when i get the chance i usually do, just to overcome my fears and because i like the challenge.
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11-03-2010, 11:08 PM
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#12 | | Banned (ABWS)
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Lol I never chased a girl in my life.. because I think chasing is kind of fake. I just present myself and ask
hey be my girlfriend?
so far its been working pretty well
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11-03-2010, 11:21 PM
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i just say "lets fuck" and see how they react.
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11-03-2010, 11:46 PM
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#14 | | Revscene.net has a homepage?!
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this is probably more direct and to the point
"can i tap that?"... theres even a thread about it. its that epic
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11-04-2010, 12:19 AM
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#15 | | not the mod you're looking for
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11-04-2010, 12:41 AM
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#16 | | OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
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"Hey so you're my girlfriend and i'm your boyfriend, agree or disagree?"
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11-04-2010, 01:27 AM
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#17 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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"hey the weather is nice isnt it? btw wanna fuck?"
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11-04-2010, 01:33 AM
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#18 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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why the fuck would you get on ur knees if u're just asking her out?
just fucking be straight up and say "Yo be my gf?"
enough said
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11-04-2010, 06:27 PM
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#19 | | Banned By Establishment
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just talk and joke around and when you get the chance to connect to somethin liek this
" wow thought your my girl"
if they reply somethin negative then i guess she aint really that down
if they like it, they ll just be quiet and keep shy
then you decide wether you should pop the question or not?
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11-04-2010, 07:49 PM
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#20 | | How I Mod your mother
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do things naturally, dont be awkward about it. I cringed when I read the get down on knee thing, AWKWAAAARRRD!
With my gf we basically started talking, went out on dates, then I basically suggested that we become "official" since I was pretty sure we were on the same page. Nothing was forced, it just felt right to do since we both wanted each other
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11-04-2010, 10:32 PM
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#21 | | Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
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Originally Posted by xilley just talk and joke around and when you get the chance to connect to somethin liek this
" wow thought your my girl"if they reply somethin negative then i guess she aint really that down
if they like it, they ll just be quiet and keep shy | i would not recommend this. that line is horrible dude! it makes you look like a wimpy sensitive guy, no matter how much you try and joke about it. just be blunt and ask "will you be my girlfriend?" when you think the time is right. then it's mutual and "verbally official" that you're exclusive.
however to assume she's your girl is playing with fire, even if you are sleeping with her it could mean fuck all. what if you got rejected? yeah yeah rejection... plenty of fish in the sea.. move on, but that's a rejection that could have been easily avoided by asking a simple question. how are you going to react when you find out she's sleeping with another guy? back to wimpy sensitive guy? "wow thought your my girl" you'll look like a fool with that assumption.
few relationships just happen and that the two don't have to ask they just know, great for them. but in a time where you do have to ask don't use that bad line.
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11-04-2010, 11:05 PM
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#22 | | Banned By Establishment
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Originally Posted by v.Rossi i would not recommend this. that line is horrible dude! it makes you look like a wimpy sensitive guy, no matter how much you try and joke about it. just be blunt and ask "will you be my girlfriend?" when you think the time is right. then it's mutual and "verbally official" that you're exclusive.
however to assume she's your girl is playing with fire, even if you are sleeping with her it could mean fuck all. what if you got rejected? yeah yeah rejection... plenty of fish in the sea.. move on, but that's a rejection that could have been easily avoided by asking a simple question. how are you going to react when you find out she's sleeping with another guy? back to wimpy sensitive guy? "wow thought your my girl" you'll look like a fool with that assumption.
few relationships just happen and that the two don't have to ask they just know, great for them. but in a time where you do have to ask don't use that bad line. |
sorry for misunderstanding, but that wasnt asking her out, i meant it as for testing, i shouldve wrote down "you decide from there on"
but yeah true if anyone does that and expects a girl to date you, the relationship prob die in weeks lol
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11-04-2010, 11:08 PM
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#23 | | RS controls my life!
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today i came up with the idea of writing it on a piece of paper, with a check box for yes and no, and then running away, and coming back a few mins later for the answer, but then i realized that it was super cheesy and decided against it.
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11-04-2010, 11:25 PM
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#24 | | Captain Happy Bubble is my Homeboy
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dammmmmm thickness, you gunna let me hit it wuts good?
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11-04-2010, 11:43 PM
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#25 | | My homepage has been set to RS
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Originally Posted by mc. today i came up with the idea of writing it on a piece of paper, with a check box for yes and no, and then running away, and coming back a few mins later for the answer, but then i realized that it was super cheesy and decided against it. | piece of paper?
running away?
cmon now...we can do better than that. Glad you decided against that
You wouldnt just walk up to a girl you barely know and ask them to be your girfriend anways. Way too forward. Ask them out casually for something to eat or drink
If it goes well and a couple dates later, you two are clearly getting closer. Then you may drop the bomb. Be smooth like butter! Each step should transition smoothly and without quirks to the next
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