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Relationship & Gender DiscussionTHIS SPACE OPEN FOR ADVERTISEMENT. YOU SHOULD BE ADVERTISING HERE! The thin line between love and hate
Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...
So, I thought we were going to move ahead.. away from the bullshit that I did.. Now I get a threat from "someone" to stop talking to you or else? Who the fuck did you talk to? Jesus christ.. and when I confront you about it... you have NO IDEA who he is? I didn't tell anybody except my boys that we broke up.. I haven't complained to anyone else.. WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING TO?
Unless I get an apology.. we're fucking done.
Anybody who wants to party.. I'll be at Blarney Stone tonight!!!
shit just got real
lol I'm planning to be downtown tonight too, never been to Blarney before though!
You're getting mad at your ex girlfriend for assuming she's talking to more people than you believe? Aren't you doing the exact same thing to her by posting your break up on here?
Is it just me, or is dating in your late 20s and 30s actually more difficult?
- I make more money now than I ever have. (and according to Stats Canada, I make more than the average for my age)
- I'm well-spoken and almost always well-dressed. (women always compliment me on my dress and the way I present myself)
- I've got bachelor pad of my own and it's well-furnished.
- I'm in the best shape of my life.
- I've done it all in terms of meeting women with varying degrees of success: going to bars, going to weddings (I've been the Master of Ceremonies of 6 weddings), speed dating, online dating, networking events, yoga classes, dance classes, and so on.
I'm certainly not in the top 10% of men, but I'm definitely above average in most categories. And yet, I'm
Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them.
Make the effort and take the risk..
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right- for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't." - Eleanor Roosevelt
You're getting mad at your ex girlfriend for assuming she's talking to more people than you believe? Aren't you doing the exact same thing to her by posting your break up on here?
My gf has talked to someone she "knows"..... this someone called me up saying he will come "hurt me" if I don't stop all contact with my ex. Now see, when I rant online, maybe 1% of RS knows who I am in real-life and how to contact me.. but when a friend of her's.. who I don't know who they are.. calls me up and threatens me.. I take that VERY personal.
Anyhow, would've been our anniversary today. Missed how things were, how happy we couldve been. At least i wore our necklace and the shirt you gave me? I wonder if you even care.. hm... hope we can still be friends, i dont like the idea of being strangers. I will always be here for you, i hope you know that. Just let me know if you never want to talk me.
Make it something memorable, that years down the road, you guys will be like :
"Do you remember the day you asked me out, it was the corniest,romantic shit ever?"
Wtf.. i didnt even get to talk to you today... at all. Not like i have for the past while...
I guess thats how much of an extent this has taken on us, hate it.
Can't give you up for some reason. you made me happy, now im.. i dont know what i feel. empty.
You were my everyday sunshine,
for a second I thought u were talking about me and that I actually know u rofl
we have all been there (my ex had the exact same story as yours). The person u marry isn't necessarily the person u love the most.
LOL
Don't worry I don't think we know each other haha, I was just trying to play along because you replied to my post
I know exactly how he would replied if he discovered my post. He would probably say something along the lines of "I'm still in love with you...blah blah blah and GOODBYE" .....Anyways....
I'd hate to have someone else in my heart other than my husband, if I ever get married at all...lol
It's been a while and I don't think it's for a lack of putting myself out there. In the past, I've had women approach me at bars, etc.
Basically, I've been told all along that it would get easier as I get older - that the women would find me.
This is actually true for many men. The older they get the more attractive they are. It is not only because older men are more mature, have more money or whatever, but also because they finally have learned how to present themselves as a challenge. Most women (except for the ones who have been hurt too deeply in the past or the ones with very low self-esteem) are addicted to challenges. If you are too readily available or showing interest too soon at the initial stage, they would lose interest real quick. A typical lady-killer often displays the best side of himself: he's mature, thoughtful, caring, helpful, financially stable, kind...the list goes on...these are great qualities in men women are seeking. However, what actually drives women crazy and starts chasing after the man is that the man is acting like he doesn't care. He even goes as far as telling these women he is not ready for a relationship/he enjoys being single etc. He remains good friends with these women and eventually many women are falling into his trap because he's so perfect yet they can't have him...the more they can't have him the more they want him...the woman he wants is already in his hand but he'll proceed to do a bit of pursuing anyways and take some initiatives to make the woman happy as well as saving her face.
LOL
Don't worry I don't think we know each other haha, I was just trying to play along because you replied to my post
I know exactly how he would replied if he discovered my post. He would probably say something along the lines of "I'm still in love with you...blah blah blah and GOODBYE" .....Anyways....
I'd hate to have someone else in my heart other than my husband, if I ever get married at all...lol
just to confirm that you are not her, I need you to PM me your msn
What hasn't Killed me, has made me more tolerant of RS!
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just when things start looking up you do something like this. alcohol aint no excuse.. im done with this. done with being used and thrown around like a rag doll. fuck you, seriously.
This is actually true for many men. The older they get the more attractive they are. It is not only because older men are more mature, have more money or whatever, but also because they finally have learned how to present themselves as a challenge. Most women (except for the ones who have been hurt too deeply in the past or the ones with very low self-esteem) are addicted to challenges. If you are too readily available or showing interest too soon at the initial stage, they would lose interest real quick. A typical lady-killer often displays the best side of himself: he's mature, thoughtful, caring, helpful, financially stable, kind...the list goes on...these are great qualities in men women are seeking. However, what actually drives women crazy and starts chasing after the man is that the man is acting like he doesn't care. He even goes as far as telling these women he is not ready for a relationship/he enjoys being single etc. He remains good friends with these women and eventually many women are falling into his trap because he's so perfect yet they can't have him...the more they can't have him the more they want him...the woman he wants is already in his hand but he'll proceed to do a bit of pursuing anyways and take some initiatives to make the woman happy as well as saving her face.
This thread has now become the "Let's find emo text-pictures on tumblr and repost them here" thread. Seriously, guys. Wtf. I feed on the schadenfreude I generate on this thread. BE ORIGINALLY MISERABLE!
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