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Relationship & Gender DiscussionTHIS SPACE OPEN FOR ADVERTISEMENT. YOU SHOULD BE ADVERTISING HERE! The thin line between love and hate
Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...
Me - "What do you want for breakfast?"
Her - "I don't know, what do you want?"
...
Me - "What do you want to do for lunch?"
Her - "I don't know, what do you want to do?"
...
Me - "Do you want to go out tonight and watch a movie?"
Her - "I don't know, do you?"
Me - "Yes. What do you want to watch?"
Her - "I don't know, what do you want to watch?"
Me - "Why can't you answer a question?"
Her - "I don't know, I wasn't really hungry and I don't feel like going out."
Me - "So why didn't you just say that?"
Her - "I don't know. I didn't know what you wanted and how you wanted me to answer the questions. I'm not a mind reader, you know?"
This entire summer, I had no problems waking up at 5:30AM for work, 4 days a week, and working for 10 hours straight without feeling tired.
Yet now that I'm back in school, I struggle to wake up at 7:45AM for class, only twice a week, and find myself yawning pretty much every 10-15 minutes for the 4.5 hours I'm there.
It's like my body just knows when I'm getting paid versus when I'm not. Lol
Me - "What do you want for breakfast?"
Her - "I don't know, what do you want?"
...
Me - "What do you want to do for lunch?"
Her - "I don't know, what do you want to do?"
...
Me - "Do you want to go out tonight and watch a movie?"
Her - "I don't know, do you?"
Me - "Yes. What do you want to watch?"
Her - "I don't know, what do you want to watch?"
Me - "Why can't you answer a question?"
Her - "I don't know, I wasn't really hungry and I don't feel like going out."
Me - "So why didn't you just say that?"
Her - "I don't know. I didn't know what you wanted and how you wanted me to answer the questions. I'm not a mind reader, you know?"
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At least you have someone to talk to.
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The reason for Speak it Out is to actually set PK-EK up with someone, whether that be someone from this thread or outside of RS.
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Originally Posted by Jmac
Spoiler!
My day ...
Me - "What do you want for breakfast?"
Her - "I don't know, what do you want?"
...
Me - "What do you want to do for lunch?"
Her - "I don't know, what do you want to do?"
...
Me - "Do you want to go out tonight and watch a movie?"
Her - "I don't know, do you?"
Me - "Yes. What do you want to watch?"
Her - "I don't know, what do you want to watch?"
Me - "Why can't you answer a question?"
Her - "I don't know, I wasn't really hungry and I don't feel like going out."
Me - "So why didn't you just say that?"
Her - "I don't know. I didn't know what you wanted and how you wanted me to answer the questions. I'm not a mind reader, you know?"
The trick is, never give them such an open ended question or pool of things to do. You suggest and say "Let's do ______"; not only will it seem less routine asking the same thing over and over, it will get her response as something you can actually quantify as a yes or no.
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ugh. junkie smashed my window just to steal kernels popcorn in my car lol.
because of that i have to spend ~170 to get it replaced..
so yea... dont leave food in your car guys lol
My brother's car was broken into almost 2 decades ago and the only thing that was stolen was two pieces of stale Excel that was in the door card of his 2 year old integra that he bought when he first got the car new. two pieces of stale gum cost 145 bucks.
Hope the cunt-thief got cancer from the aspertame, sugar-free, 2-year old expired excel.
This entire summer, I had no problems waking up at 5:30AM for work, 4 days a week, and working for 10 hours straight without feeling tired.
Yet now that I'm back in school, I struggle to wake up at 7:45AM for class, only twice a week, and find myself yawning pretty much every 10-15 minutes for the 4.5 hours I'm there.
It's like my body just knows when I'm getting paid versus when I'm not. Lol
I was the exact same way when I went to school.
Except for me, it was only kind of about the money. It was moreso about getting up early to only have my ass glued to a seat for hours and listen to some professor teach me how to write a bunch of shit down and regurgitate it for some term paper or exam. I learned so much more through a week of volunteering than I did with a month of schooling.
even when I think I'm done growing, I can always look back and see how much I've done to better myself -- how something difficult can shape you into something better. never stop challenging yourself, and always stay ambitious
sometimes you need to get burned to see it in a better light.
The trick is, never give them such an open ended question or pool of things to do. You suggest and say "Let's do ______"; not only will it seem less routine asking the same thing over and over, it will get her response as something you can actually quantify as a yes or no.
As a woman I agree on this lol. If I actually knew what I wanted to do I would say so. So throw some ideas out instead of just asking open ended questions take control
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i love how we finally got comfortable and conversed. it allowed me to know you on a deeper level. if we never opened up, we would’ve never known what was on each others minds. there was a barrier that we couldn’t get past and it made me upset. i’d be alone and you’d be alone, not physically, but mentally and emotionally. we’d just be two people in a relationship. but with that connection we made yesterday not just by talking, but by actually making ourselves vulnerable by letting loose of all our thoughts and feelings, we finally understood why we had miscommunication and misunderstandings. i’m so happy you understand what i’ve been trying to get at now. communication is so important.
dafuq is wrong with you girl. every 3 months you blow up and break up. We are no longer in high school.
You want me to give you a sense of security, girl, i want you to give me a sense of being a good wife.
Sorry if you got pissed about bros before hoes. Seriously, my bros have been there since day one, you have just been in my life for a year. Hell, you just broke up with me right now... bro gotta do what a bro gotta do.
1 week left, then atleast life should calm down abit.
The last 2 weeks have just been brutal, and not sleeping last night definitely doesn't help me start off the weekend. I've seriously learned that if you don't write things down, you forget them. I now understand why "adults" keep everything in daily planners or on calendars.
I really hope i can sleep well tonight.
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[17-03, 09:23] Amuro Ray is it normal for my dick to have things growing on it?
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[15-05, 13:34] FastAnna You guise are like diet coke and I am the mentos
[15-05, 13:34] FastAnna Incredible. How easy it is.
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I'm scared of spiders... When I see one I toss my cats at it
1) Never ask me to read your mind.
2) Never ask me to choose.
the 2nd one hits the spot. Ask me to choose friends over gf, we'll always choose friends. Don't you feel during a fight, 9 / 10 times girls will always ask you to choose and at the end, we NEVER choose the girl.
No one should be making anyone choose. I've had 2 people in my life do that and both are no longer a part of it. One asked me to choose him (my bf at the time) or my best friend (who didn't like him, which turned out to be something I should have listened to earlier) and the other was the best friend from the earlier ultimatum trying to make me choose between her and the guy I was seeing at the time. I ended up being with that guy for 7 years and about a year into the relationship I quit being friends with her. Couldn't handle the animosity she had for him (for absolutely no reason either).
Ultimatums are stupid and I have no idea why anyone tries to use them.
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