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Trinity 03-04-2009 09:08 AM

Noir and vmec sitting in a tree.. K..I..S..S..I..N..G...!

vmec 03-04-2009 09:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Noir (Post 6311832)
Women enjoy sex as a byproduct of love & romance. I did use the word "a lot" as the margin of women that that like fucking for the sake of needing a dick are a much smaller margin than their general counterparts. In fact, don't women have a certain derogatory label for these kind of women?

Again wrong... SOME women. Why do you try to throw this blanket over "women"? And really, does it matter why the sex is being had? No. I'm merely arguing that there are plenty of women who need sex, for the sake of being fucked. "Slut" or not, if you need to get fucked you need to get fucked; man or women.

And it's not all the uncommon to encounter a man whoose sex drive is low. Maybe not so widespread on RS as it's polluted with horndogs as yourself and the OP but, elsewhere it's not all that uncommon. So don't assume all men have such a dire need for sex. I've seen it in real life through myself, my good friends, and multiple other forms.

Noir 03-04-2009 09:53 AM

^^^ Wow! Talk about nitpicking. Can't believe that's how far you'd go just to disagree. You're not even arguing out of principle anymore, you're just arguing numbers now.

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Originally Posted by vmec (Post 6311896)
And it's not all the uncommon to encounter a man whoose sex drive is low. Maybe not so widespread on RS as it's polluted with horndogs as yourself and the OP but, elsewhere it's not all that uncommon.

And talk about self conflicting. Want to read this comment again? Do you understand the connotation of "widespread"? Doesn't that endorse generalization? What you just did is what you're criticizing me for.

You're seriously just arguing semantics now. Anyone who's got common sense knows that generalization doesn't mean absolution. And that when someone says, "all", or "a-lot" doesn't mean the whole 6 billion populace of the world, it's a given that there are margins of exceptions. Unless you're not one of the beneficiaries of "given knowledge."

Again, you're just nitpicking. Try again sweetheart. ;)

!Yaminashi 03-04-2009 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by vmec (Post 6311896)
And really, does it matter why the sex is being had? No. I'm merely arguing that there are plenty of women who need sex, for the sake of being fucked. "Slut" or not, if you need to get fucked you need to get fucked; man or women.

I dont want to get all caught up in yours and Noir's pre-sexcapadial pillow talk..
I didnt pay too much attention to what you two were saying to each other, but the OP was right, SOME of you females can be quite hypocritical.

So by your logic, why is it ok for a girl to need sex whether she's a slut or not?

When the females in this thread spent too much time bashing the OP for what he did?
You should really watch what you say :p

butter_sashimi 03-04-2009 11:01 AM

I would say that it's just not women who are hypocritical... More like there's a tendancy to place yoursel on more idealistic positive terms than someone else. No one prefers to show themselves on more realistic terms. It's like saying "yeaaa look at that girl, what fugoiness" when you don't realize ur like a 6 at best. Add in some feminism and voilą cheating men are pigs. Society has more or less molded the thinking that men are more suscptible to cheating and affairs due to the emphasis on sex and that women are more sexually subdued.

Speaking of which I agree that it is a generalization that women are less sex needy and guys are moreso. I'm more of a perv than 1 guy I know. But I know my inner lust for action can't be compared to my other male asociates.

Noir, u should know by now that by speaking any words that even relate to the dignity of women as a population, you wake the feminism-spewing dragon that is vmec. But yea your like the 2nd coming of ulic- full of entertaining truth. All hail~

vmec 03-04-2009 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Draft (Post 6311981)
So by your logic, why is it ok for a girl to need sex whether she's a slut or not?

Everyone is entitled to sex and love. So if you're not getting either or don't cheat... leave and seek. How is that so hard to understand?!

happytoro 03-04-2009 11:52 AM

Did this turn into some other discussion that is totally unrelated?
But the whole thing about not getting any sex and cheating...then going to the should have just ended it and seek for sex elsewhere...
Um, I think you neglected the fact that this is a past event that can't be changed and should focus more on the aftercare rather than the shoulda, coulda, woulda. It is obvious the OP realizes it was a bad move to cheat.
And how hard is it to understand that situations can have complexities to it that make it harder than just leave and seek?
OP's gf probably already weighed the value of their 6 year relationship, their child, and a bunch of other stuff and decided to stay, work things out, and leave the past behind. So I'm really wondering what vmec is trying to prove here. I'm lost.

Durrann1984 03-04-2009 12:01 PM

women want sex just as much as men

that is all

Noir 03-04-2009 12:33 PM

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Originally Posted by butter_sashimi (Post 6312058)
Speaking of which I agree that it is a generalization that women are less sex needy and guys are moreso. I'm more of a perv than 1 guy I know. But I know my inner lust for action can't be compared to my other male asociates.

Thanks, that's EXACTLY what my point was. But for some reason I got dragged in an argument of semantics. :confused:

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Originally Posted by Durrann1984 (Post 6312221)
women want sex just as much as men

that is all

You missed the point. It's women don't need sex as much as men.

And the proof is everywhere

***Men can't survive elongated dry spells by choice. In cases of emergency, guys are known to lay an obese crater faced girl. In comparison, will a woman completely relinquish ALL her standards just because she hasn't been fucked in months?

***If no avenues are available, no chick friends, no fat desperate chicks, guys will pay for sex. That's why the female prostitution has long since been a far more lucrative trade in comparison to male prostitution for women. Hell, I'd bet that even male prositute's clientele are largely based on gay men instead of women.

***Go to a club. What's the ratio of women approaching men, women buying men drinks, women competing for men?

You can chastise me for my verbage but I call it how I see it. Argue the exception all you want but society dictates what society dictates.

Trinity 03-04-2009 12:50 PM

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Originally Posted by vmec (Post 6312090)
Blah blah blah whine bitch rant preach OHLOOKITMEI'MSOSUPERIMPORTANTI'MALWAYSRIGHTANDYOUA REWRONG!

If you were actually happy in your relationship, you wouldn't be preaching to us.

Shut the fuck up.

happytoro 03-04-2009 12:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Trinity (Post 6312284)
If you were actually happy in your relationship, you wouldn't be preaching to us.

Shut the fuck up.

+1 :haha:

vmec 03-04-2009 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Trinity (Post 6312284)
If you were actually happy in your relationship, you wouldn't be preaching to us.

Shut the fuck up.

LOL What the fuck? :haha:

Trinity 03-04-2009 01:02 PM

Seriously. If you were actually happy in your OWN relationship, you wouldn't be telling us what's wrong with the world.

Trinity 03-04-2009 01:05 PM

Actually, I'm willing to bet that because you're so uptight about everything, and you feel the need to express every single damn opinion in that narrow little mind of yours, you haven't been laid in months.

vmec 03-04-2009 01:05 PM

OK, becuase if I'm happy, I'm not allowed to recognize why others aren't? OKAY...

HOLY fuckin' hell you nailed it! I'm NOT gettin' laid! Gee, I forgot.

Wait a minute here... BET? How much?

!Yaminashi 03-04-2009 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Trinity (Post 6312302)
Seriously. If you were actually happy in your OWN relationship, you wouldn't be telling us what's wrong with the world.

I actually think she likes to go on and on about how her man is everything she's ever wanted and how he's so great

Unless it was a cover up

:haha:

Trinity 03-04-2009 01:12 PM

See? There you go again with your narrow way of thinking.

All the happy people I know don't bother trying to fix things beyond their control. They're able to take what they have and make the best of it, not fix other people's problems.

If you really were happy in your relationship, or heck even your life, you wouldn't be so adamant that others live up to your standards, especially people who you don't know and don't give two shits about, because you've already got a pretty fulfilling life!

But you probably don't, which explains why you're so uptight about so much bullshit. And you're probably getting laid, but hey let's just admit it - he's not that good, is he.

vmec 03-04-2009 01:16 PM

Oh Holy Trinity,

You're so right... I'm fronting being in a relationship over the internet to make myself feel better. But you've even ripped that away. Sigh. Whatever can I do if I can't even pretend to have a wonderful yet make believe relationship?

Sadly the sex is weak but I stay because I can't get any better. Sigh some more. Even a *tear* rolls down my face as I'm sad to finally come to terms with my fake online idenity.

/sarcasm.

Have a wonderful day! (Is that happy!?)

Trinity 03-04-2009 01:19 PM

Oh look! She turns to sarcasm as her first line of defense! And she has no actual argument! WOW!

!Yaminashi 03-04-2009 01:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Trinity (Post 6312343)
Oh look! She turns to sarcasm as her first line of defense!

I think you hit a nerve:thumbsup:

!SG 03-04-2009 01:21 PM

i nominate bcrdukes then.

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Originally Posted by vmec (Post 6312311)
OK, becuase if I'm happy, I'm not allowed to recognize why others aren't? OKAY...

HOLY fuckin' hell you nailed it! I'm NOT gettin' laid! Gee, I forgot.

Wait a minute here... BET? How much?


!SG 03-04-2009 01:23 PM

and again, i nominate bcrdukes to solve your problems.

WHERE THE FUCK ARE YOU MIKE! I JUST WINGMAN'D YOU A SPOT!


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Originally Posted by vmec (Post 6312337)
Oh Holy Trinity,

You're so right... I'm fronting being in a relationship over the internet to make myself feel better. But you've even ripped that away. Sigh. Whatever can I do if I can't even pretend to have a wonderful yet make believe relationship?

Sadly the sex is weak but I stay because I can't get any better. Sigh some more. Even a *tear* rolls down my face as I'm sad to finally come to terms with my fake online idenity.

/sarcasm.

Have a wonderful day! (Is that happy!?)


bcrdukes 03-04-2009 01:31 PM

vmec what's up baby?

I'm free tomorrow in the evening. Alphamale, mah homeboi, he gonna hook me up wit mah ride in my Alfa Romeo Spider. Baby, when it's all cool, we go ride in the night, just you and I? And I got some KFC coupons, ya'know? You can have whatever you like. ;)

Holla back, guurrllllll. ;)

Noir 03-04-2009 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Trinity (Post 6312343)
Oh look! She turns to sarcasm as her first line of defense! And she has no actual argument! WOW!

She hasn't had one for quite a while now.

vmec 03-04-2009 01:33 PM

You expect me to admit that I'm getting laid but it sucks? Seriously? Like how the fuck would I prove it true or not? I mean seriously. This isn't even arguable! I mean you could argue "this thread is useless without pics!" but do I have that much disrespect to ACTUALLY do that? Nope.

Oh sigh, this is just too much, too much. I getting "what's up baby" over the internet.


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