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09-15-2009, 01:41 PM
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Am I the only one thinking eminem and 8 mile
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09-15-2009, 01:42 PM
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#52 | | RS Veteran
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Originally Posted by MajinHurricane  fyp | Fuck Your Parents?
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Jesus Christ. What is wrong with you?
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09-15-2009, 01:42 PM
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#53 | | Willing to sell a family member for a few minutes on RS
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Originally Posted by Jsunu Not mine 
But it teaches financial independence so its all good  | I live at home in my parents basement suite with my gf. We pay rent just like any normal person renting the basement would. I dont get anything for free except food sometimes . Its alot cheaper to rent from my parents while saving up to buy our own place. Also teaches you to be financially independant as well. If I'm late on rent, you better believe my parents wouldnt think twice about evicting me. I wouldnt have it any other way. I'm not one of those kids who mooch the shit outta their parents
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09-15-2009, 01:43 PM
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#54 | | Banned (ABWS)
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Originally Posted by MajinHurricane get the fuck out of my country. | We will after we steal all of your jobs and take up all the seats in Universities Quote:
Originally Posted by hotjoint Asian parents want their kids to live with them forever though. | not forever .... but close enough where they can see each other within walking distances ...:P
not many chinese parents nowadays live with their kids nemore ... they usally just buy a house nearby and stfu
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09-15-2009, 01:45 PM
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#55 | | Willing to sell a family member for a few minutes on RS
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Originally Posted by pandalove
not forever .... but close enough where they can see each other within walking distances ...:P
not many chinese parents nowadays live with their kids nemore ... they usally just buy a house nearby and stfu
| haha this is true. I guess its 50/50 now.
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09-15-2009, 01:49 PM
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#56 | | Banned (ABWS)
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i think you can totally bust your mom for evading tax for the rents u gave b4 ... shes suppose to report those as income ??
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09-15-2009, 03:55 PM
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#57 | | SFICC-03*
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geez wtf did you do?
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09-15-2009, 04:54 PM
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#58 | | In RS I Trust
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fucken white parents, I know I have them.
Honestly it will be better to suck it up move out and be civil with her as much as you can. It's a shitty situtation but in the long run your better off being the bigger person here and act like the adult in this matter. But I would move out end of Oct only pay the $350 and if she does complain I would show her the emails and tell her you need time to find a new place(unless you find something before that).
It's sad to say but my mom is a complete bitch as well that only cares about her self. I find just letting her be like shes not part of my life works best. I pick up the phone sometimes when she calls and I act civil at most.
Family is family and the bad thing is you don't want to end things on a bad note cause this day and age you never know what could happen and you don't want to regret it for the rest of your life.
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09-15-2009, 06:46 PM
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#59 | | Media Officer / MOD
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Buddy's I feel sorry for you....
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09-15-2009, 07:10 PM
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#60 | | ESKETIT
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your moms a cunt
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09-15-2009, 07:13 PM
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#61 | | Fathered more RS members than anybody else. Who's your daddy?
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They say blood is thicker than water, but I've seen my share of fucked up shit.
My three kids are all out of secondary school now. All three still live at home. In this day and age, it's really tough to make it on your own. My kids are not freeloaders. They feel guilty about staying at home for free and are trying hard to get a good start in life. I will not kick them out so they will become another statistic. When I was their age, I moved out as soon as I got a decent job, but things were a lot easier back then.
My kids look after the two grandparents they have and they know that when my wife and I get old, they will have to look after us as well. I cannot send my mom or my mother in law to a care home. Especially after hearing all those horror stories. I will try to be as independent as I can, but there will come a time when I'll become a burden to my kids. This is the way my family has been raised. I guess it's a cultural thing. A lot of Italian families are like this too, so it's not just an Asian thing. To each their own. I'm just glad my kids turned out OK, even though they talk back to me a lot (bastards!). 
BTW, my mom used to be pretty demanding, but lately she has backed off quite a bit. Her friends keep telling her about how their children have left them to fend for themselves. I think she now realizes she has a good thing going and that she shouldn't push it.
What's really tough right now is the fact that this might be the first time in history most children will not do better than their parents. Cost of living is nuts and there are fewer and fewer good paying jobs. I believe this is the time families need to stick together even more.
OP, I don't know what to say? Hopefully things will work out with your mom, but for the time being, she seems to think she'll do fine without you. Leave, but be there for her when she needs you. We all make stupid mistakes. Parents are no different.
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09-15-2009, 07:34 PM
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#62 | | Banned (ABWS)
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wow what a huge rampaging thunder cunt.
I would probably tell her to fuck off, and show her how I keep my pimp hand strong, then peace that house the fuck out, probably forever.
sorry to hear your relationship with ur momz is fucked, but hey, it happens.
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09-15-2009, 07:52 PM
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#63 | | YOU CANT CUT BACK ON FUNDING! YOU WILL REGRET THIS
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GG OP
say a sweet "I love you mom"
and then leave the house, leaving your baby pictures behind
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09-15-2009, 08:12 PM
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#64 | | I STILL don't get it
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My friend and her sister (white) both got kicked out of the house when they turned 18. Now she has two jobs, full time school, and dance practice. But since her dad is a prof, she manages to sleep in his office when things get too tiring | |
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09-15-2009, 09:21 PM
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#65 | | Willing to sell a family member for a few minutes on RS
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Originally Posted by 89blkcivic They say blood is thicker than water, but I've seen my share of fucked up shit.
My three kids are all out of secondary school now. All three still live at home. In this day and age, it's really tough to make it on your own. My kids are not freeloaders. They feel guilty about staying at home for free and are trying hard to get a good start in life. I will not kick them out so they will become another statistic. When I was their age, I moved out as soon as I got a decent job, but things were a lot easier back then.
My kids look after the two grandparents they have and they know that when my wife and I get old, they will have to look after us as well. I cannot send my mom or my mother in law to a care home. Especially after hearing all those horror stories. I will try to be as independent as I can, but there will come a time when I'll become a burden to my kids. This is the way my family has been raised. I guess it's a cultural thing. A lot of Italian families are like this too, so it's not just an Asian thing. To each their own. I'm just glad my kids turned out OK, even though they talk back to me a lot (bastards!).
BTW, my mom used to be pretty demanding, but lately she has backed off quite a bit. Her friends keep telling her about how their children have left them to fend for themselves. I think she now realizes she has a good thing going and that she shouldn't push it.
What's really tough right now is the fact that this might be the first time in history most children will not do better than their parents. Cost of living is nuts and there are fewer and fewer good paying jobs. I believe this is the time families need to stick together even more.
OP, I don't know what to say? Hopefully things will work out with your mom, but for the time being, she seems to think she'll do fine without you. Leave, but be there for her when she needs you. We all make stupid mistakes. Parents are no different. | I agree tht family should stick together and only be apart if totally necessary. Its hard these days. My parents tell me stories all the time about "back in the day" when one parent could work and you could still live comfortably. Times have changed and everything is expensive as shit. I know tons of dual income couples that are barely getting by, but then again they live lavish lifestyles
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09-15-2009, 09:22 PM
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#66 | | I contribute to threads in the offtopic forum
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^^pics of ur friend and her sis now
op u need to move the fuck out period
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09-15-2009, 10:02 PM
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#67 | | ninja edits your posts without your knowledge
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Originally Posted by 89blkcivic They say blood is thicker than water, but I've seen my share of fucked up shit.
My three kids are all out of secondary school now. All three still live at home. In this day and age, it's really tough to make it on your own. My kids are not freeloaders. They feel guilty about staying at home for free and are trying hard to get a good start in life. I will not kick them out so they will become another statistic. When I was their age, I moved out as soon as I got a decent job, but things were a lot easier back then.
My kids look after the two grandparents they have and they know that when my wife and I get old, they will have to look after us as well. I cannot send my mom or my mother in law to a care home. Especially after hearing all those horror stories. I will try to be as independent as I can, but there will come a time when I'll become a burden to my kids. This is the way my family has been raised. I guess it's a cultural thing. A lot of Italian families are like this too, so it's not just an Asian thing. To each their own. I'm just glad my kids turned out OK, even though they talk back to me a lot (bastards!).
BTW, my mom used to be pretty demanding, but lately she has backed off quite a bit. Her friends keep telling her about how their children have left them to fend for themselves. I think she now realizes she has a good thing going and that she shouldn't push it.
What's really tough right now is the fact that this might be the first time in history most children will not do better than their parents. Cost of living is nuts and there are fewer and fewer good paying jobs. I believe this is the time families need to stick together even more.
OP, I don't know what to say? Hopefully things will work out with your mom, but for the time being, she seems to think she'll do fine without you. Leave, but be there for her when she needs you. We all make stupid mistakes. Parents are no different. | 
I could've sworn you were Asian with this kind of story. But I do know what you mean. I live in a pretty nice mix of Asian/Chinese and Italian neighbourhood and everyone gets along very well. Whenever we have a big dinner or BBQ we always give food to our neighbours and they do likewise.
Awesome. Just awesome.
OP, sorry but you have one fucked up mom. Kick her in the crotch so hard that her ovaries become her new set of eyes. Maybe then she can see what a cunt of a mother she is.
I apologize for using such derogatory terms but she is one messed up individual.
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09-15-2009, 10:10 PM
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#68 | | To me, there is the Internet and there is RS
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Originally Posted by pandalove LOOOOOOOOOL White people ...
yeaaa not so funny now to say we Chinese live with our parents huh | no.. it still is..
As long as I'm respectful to my landlords I can pretty much do whatever the hell I want.
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09-15-2009, 10:24 PM
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#69 | | Need to Seek Professional Help
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Originally Posted by tc_terencec GG OP
say a sweet "I love you mom"
and then leave the house, leaving your baby pictures behind | made me lol hard...
OP, feel sorry for you...hope you get shit sorted out
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09-15-2009, 11:41 PM
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#70 | | Orgasm Donor & Alatar owned my ass twice!
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I could've sworn you were Asian with this kind of story. | He said he is in another thread.
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09-16-2009, 12:21 AM
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#71 | | Revscene.net has a homepage?!
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If you really want to piss her off, and don't mind living there while totally ignoring her then read on:
Continue paying the $350 rent, if she doesn't accept it just leave it in an envelope and take pictures/whatever.. anything to prove your case that you made your effort to get the rent to her but she just isn't accepting it. Because you proved that you're not missing your payments on your rent, she has to go through a bunch of other BS to try and evict you.
Someone mentioned something about secondary suites ( renting basement out to people ) but I think that it's okay if it's a family member, otherwise they have to apply for a license. More Here
That is a bitch of a mom and I'm sorry to hear about your situation, I'd be pretty pissed off and would purposely live there to piss her the fuck off. Not like the relationship isn't TOTALLY fucked already...
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09-16-2009, 12:21 AM
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#72 | | WOAH! i think Vtec just kicked in!
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Originally Posted by _Hotsauce_ Correct, I wish I had a close-knit family, in which I get along with siblings/parents, but nope. | Hotsauce, I really feel for your situation. I honestly do not know of a single friend whose parents would even charge them for rent. 99% of my friend's parents pay for everything while they are studying their asses off around the clock at University.
I hope her threat isn't real and its just a bargaining threat in some argument.
If you're working, its more than fair to pay rent to your parents.
If you're in school and they are demanding rent like this, and you're self supported, I would most definitely leave.
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09-16-2009, 12:26 AM
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#73 | | WOAH! i think Vtec just kicked in!
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Originally Posted by CRS
I could've sworn you were Asian with this kind of story. But I do know what you mean. I live in a pretty nice mix of Asian/Chinese and Italian neighbourhood and everyone gets along very well. Whenever we have a big dinner or BBQ we always give food to our neighbours and they do likewise.
Awesome. Just awesome.
OP, sorry but you have one fucked up mom. Kick her in the crotch so hard that her ovaries become her new set of eyes. Maybe then she can see what a cunt of a mother she is.
I apologize for using such derogatory terms but she is one messed up individual. | Totally agreed. I had several Caucasian friends during High School who left home to live on their own right after High School. One of them even commented that us Chinese kids were complete free loaders.
Today, they are working really crappy jobs (e.g working at the mall at age 30) while my friends who continued on to University and being supported by family are well on their way to grad degrees and very high paying professions - several are even STILL in school or just finished in the past year! This obviously isn't only Orientals - I have many Caucasian and Indo Canadian etc friends under the same umbrella!
It honestly makes me beam with pride going to Dim Sum brunch - seeing 3 generations of a Chinese family eating together on Sundays really shows bond.
My greatest respect however, goes to many of my Indo Canadian friends. They stick together so tightly and have so many relatives living together paying the mortgage on a large home, that their mortgage is paid off in no time and they lose minimal interest to the bank. Props!
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09-16-2009, 07:40 AM
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this thread is actually entertaiing .. i like
added : ** get your mom to hook up with cocaine and you can be her supplier, money making baby
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09-16-2009, 07:47 AM
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#75 | | Banned (ABWS)
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Originally Posted by bcrdukes Fuck Your Parents?
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