Would you ever date a friends ex?

[!Nhan]

Applesugary: why is it that you cannot make love to someone who has dated your ex? that makes no sense at all. if you have strong feelings for that person, or if you love them you, theres nothing that's going to stop you. to make things harder what's going to stop you when you're in the moment?

Your whole statement seems to contradict how a lot of people live. Why judge someone based on their past when there's a reason why it's in the past?

[hotjoint]

Originally Posted by Graeme S

Hooah.

Plus, I think we need to keep soemthign in mind--stealing a girl or guy is different from dating an ex. I'd have no problems with any of my buddies dating any of my exes, it's not a big deal. We don't go out anymore for a reason; I won't begrudge either of them happiness if they get along well together.

[Noir]

Originally Posted by AppleSugary

+1
try to explain this to me because it does not sound logical. :-p
What is the correlation between not dating your friend's ex and dont make for great flings nor do they make great relationships either?


Do you mean that I only have to date my friend's ex in order to have a great fling and relationship?

Can I not do that with another man who's not an ex of my friend?

Yeah, as unlogical as your 3 strike rule.

I'm talking about your "golden rules" superceding any situation devoid of any consideration, merits or demerits. I find it laughable that your romantic life is that simplistic enough that you can apply "blanket rules" to this facet of your life.

Hence my words: Girls with too many rules neither make for good flings, nor good relationships.

[jl.69]

Originally Posted by banana_girl

been in a situation like that lonnnnnnnnnng time ago. the outcome wasn't pretty

True that!