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Old 10-08-2009, 10:17 AM   #26
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Friend of mine finally got a date with a guy she really liked... she ended up paying for everything, and at the end of the night, he offered (in his great generosity) to go home with her... by that point she was pissed off enough to just tell him to get bent.

I said she should have told him, "I'm cheap OR easy, but not both."

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It depends on the nature of it. If she completely has no interest in you and you're in a position where you are still trying to win someone over, the generosity makes sense.

Myself personally, even if both the girl and I both mutually like each other, I wouldn't ask out a girl to do something unless I have the capacity to bear responsibility for the whole night. I would appreciate any financial help she "may" provide but it's not a requirement for me.

Other than one filipina chick who expected to be princessed, I haven't had too much trouble with this. A lot of the girls I've been with have been courteous.
I know flip guys they won't even date flip chicks....I think good looking flip chicks are the most money grubbing chicks of all.....of course this is a generalization........whenever I see a caucausian dude with a flip or nammer chick, I always think...he is getting screwed over.......
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Old 10-08-2009, 12:23 PM   #28
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i dont mind paying as long as they offer some shit in returning the favor


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Old 10-08-2009, 03:44 PM   #29
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I know flip guys they won't even date flip chicks....I think good looking flip chicks are the most money grubbing chicks of all.....of course this is a generalization........whenever I see a caucausian dude with a flip or nammer chick, I always think...he is getting screwed over.......
I'm one of those flip guys who don't date money-grubbing flip chicks.

I just go for the cute chicks who have low self-esteem, they're usually more modest and shy
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I'm one of those flip guys who don't date money-grubbing flip chicks.

I just go for the cute chicks who have low self-esteem, they're usually more modest and shy
i'm with you on that one


First date, guy should always pay, dont complain about being cheap if you can't even afford the bill in full, if there's a second , third of fourth date, the girl should make at least one attempt in there

my rule is, the person who asks you out should pay, or at least cover their own half, some girls out there just dont have that much money to spend, they rather blow it on clothes, coke or jewelry

if i find no interest or quality in the person by the second date, there wont be a third, she has to be pretty fuking charming to get a third date, if she passes the second, then money is not an issue

tip, asian girls (non white washed) will make an effort to pay for themselves or cover the full bill, at least most of the ones i've dated, it's kind of awkward because i dont like girls paying for me, but to each their own
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i've dated A LOT of girls and girls are taking things for granted. My X and I dated for 2 yrs and she has never paid for a meal (unless it was my bday). She had the guts to ask me why we are eating well when we go out with fiends but on regular weekends we eat a shit places.

nowadays, when it comes to expenses, I put in 75%, she puts in 25%, but she THINKS she puts in 75% and me only 25%. Solution?
Sat her down, told her this is how much you bring home, this is how much she brings home and BAM, threw her the pile of bills, told her to do the math. Bitch now realizes she's a broke mofo and realized there's more to it than just "I buy groceries and some rent already". Internet, insurance, cable, stara, sewage, property tax, cell phone bills, gas, oil changes are also expenses.
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LOL one of the ppl i know are super cheap like when we used to go out she would calculate everything down to the penny.

One time we went for Hot Pot. There are too many ppl so we got split into 2 table. I was on the other table. When the bill comes our bill was something like 70 lish so we I think give like 80 something and her table bill came up to be 58 or 59. Well she(her table is all full of cheapos). Slip down and 60 and left. I was like O_O WFT. I FEEL even embrass when I was out with her that time.
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Old 10-08-2009, 05:32 PM   #33
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i have a friend who insisted on getting a smart car when they already own a civic because it would save more gas.
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some girls out there just dont have that much money to spend, they rather blow it on clothes, coke or jewelry
did i see coke? u mean coca-cola? i dont kno girls who snort coke, lol
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i have a friend who insisted on getting a smart car when they already own a civic because it would save more gas.

that is not bad. save on gas and save a bit more environment.

i have always felt that guys and girls should split the bills. For example, a couple goes out for a dinner and a movie.
The guy pays for the food as it is more expensive. and the girl pays for the movie. this is for a couple that has been going for awhile.

70% guy paying and 30% girl paying is a good split.
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that is not bad. save on gas and save a bit more environment.
That's actually as dumb as piercing your nutsack with a fireplace poker.

For the price of a Smartcar and its upkeep, you will be able to buy an assload of gasoline.

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Myself personally, even if both the girl and I both mutually like each other, I wouldn't ask out a girl to do something unless I have the capacity to bear responsibility for the whole night. I would appreciate any financial help she "may" provide but it's not a requirement for me.
Responsibility for the whole night... does that include the baby that comes out later?

Otherwise, agreed. IMO, I would pay for the first date and would be able to pick up the tab on subsequent dates (I would go into a date with the "expectation" that I would pay). I guess I've been lucky (or picky!) enough that I've never had the issue of paying for a girl 100% of the time... in my experience they usually want to pick up some of the costs and it's appreciated.
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My rule of thumb is that if the guy asked you out on the date to dinner or whatever, he should be fully aware of the fact that he would be the one paying since he's taking the girl out, but that doesn't mean the girl still can't shell out some money too. This goes both ways

My first date with my bf, i did expect him to pay, but i pulled out my wallet anyways and ended up sharing the bill..i wasn't expecting him to let me pay but after i was just like..oh well there's nothing wrong with sharing the bill

IMO if a girl doesn't even make an attempt to reach for her wallet, even on the first date, tell her to go to hell.
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my girl didn't like me paying all the time which was good and i still got sex haha
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gf and I take turns paying whenever we go out, nice and easy
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any girl who expects the guy to pay everytime and then to repays them with sex should just call themselves whores. why waste time going out, just go to a hotel room and take care of business.

I know people who were raised with lots of money who wont expect the guy to pay, they are down to earth and not stuck up. I find its more the ones who dont have as much who act that way, that have something to prove. But its not even that, it doesnt matter if theyre raised with or without money, its how they were raised by their parents, to teach them about respect and the value of money.

If I kept going out with a girl who didnt offer to pay, when it came time to repay me for my trouble, I would pull a beverly hills wiffer on her..
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I know flip guys they won't even date flip chicks....I think good looking flip chicks are the most money grubbing chicks of all.....
Like the guy below me, I'm one of them. And don't feel bad about your generalization. It is what is it is because there's a big amount of truth to it.

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as long as she puts out, i dun care about money ...

gonna pay for sex one way or the other anyway if call a hooker ...
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