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Old 10-07-2009, 02:53 PM   #1
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guy/girl who were cheap on dates

any guys or girls here dated or have friends who are cheap. if so how was she/he cheap on the date. what did they do. any stories hehe would be great

i knew some girls who expected the guy to pay even after 2nd time i paid for her drink, she still didn't bring out her wallet. ---that is cheap to me

any cheap friends and if so what did he/she do-when you guys went out ehhe stories

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Old 10-07-2009, 03:27 PM   #2
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I don't go on a second date if my date doesn't even attempt to reach for her pursue and just sits there like i'm expected to pay.
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Old 10-07-2009, 03:29 PM   #3
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If you're paying for her every time, she'd better be giving you some good head.

I'm all in for being generous and I don't mind paying when I have to, but if she's expecting me to pay, then I'm expecting her to get on her knees.




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No first date if she doesn't let me stick it in her bum the minute we meet.

One gurl I know through an aquaintence claims she is a west end "kerrisdale" girl and won't date any guy who doesn't have his own place and car, and makes less than $100K a year. When ever we go out as a group, she will never offer to drive any of the people home even if it is on the way and it is pissing rain but will have no issues about asking for a ride home when the situation is reversed. One time, she even asked one of her friends to join us for dinner so her friend could drive her home.

I've seen people use the excuse "I went out for dinner already this week, so I can't come to your birthday dinner" or "I don't like that restaurant you guys want to go cause the food is too expensive" but she has no issues with going to other restaurants and having $10 cocktail drinks.
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girls who think guys should pay for stuff everytime are fukking lamers. i asked my friend should guys pay for everything time they do stuff and she said yes. i asked her then what do girls pay for? shes like she pays him by having sex... im like so during sex only the guy enjoys it right???? so during that time it only makes sense that only the guy gets to finish and the girl get to cliffhanger right? RETARDED
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For me, I'll pay for the first time going out, cause chances are I asked her to go out for drinks or whatever so it's kinda like my treat.. After the first time, if she makes no effort peace out.
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I guess I'm fortunate enough to ever encounter this problem. The ppl I go out with take out their wallet as soon as the bill comes. I'm usually the cheap one, but not paying for ur own meal is just wrong. I mean the "I pay for meal & u pay for movie" thing is absolutely fine. But sitting there & waitng for other to pay for u meal is just wrong. We'r not ur dad for Christ's sake.

But u should be glad that it happens on the first date. It'll save u months or even years of bullshit down the road
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any guys or girls here dated or have friends who are cheap. if so how was she/he cheap on the date. what did they do. any stories hehe would be great

i knew some girls who expected the guy to pay even after 2nd time i paid for her drink, she still didn't bring out her wallet. ---that is cheap to me

any cheap friends and if so what did he/she do-when you guys went out ehhe stories
i guess since you are a M5 driver, girls kinda expect you to pay for them.
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i think they get an impression when they sit in the guy's car
be it in a civic or a bmw
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For me, I'll pay for the first time going out, cause chances are I asked her to go out for drinks or whatever so it's kinda like my treat.. After the first time, if she makes no effort peace out.
Even on the first date she should at least ask what her end of the bills is. Not that she should pay, just out of consideration. Anything less = do not want.
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she asked me to pay her after we had sex.
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I think guys should pay on the first date, just out of courtesy. I guess I'm old-fashioned that way, but I still make that attempt to reach for my wallet. And then afterwards, I think it's fair if people just take turns paying for the dinner bills.

One cheapo that I dated...we went to bubble tea for a first date. When the bill came, he slapped down a 20, but I offered to pay for my half at least. I gave him a $10 bill expecting him to give me the change he had in his wallet or the change he was going to get from his 20, but nope....he just pocketed the $10. Now I know my bubble tea did not cost $10...So really, I ended up paying for the bill.
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girls who think guys should pay for stuff everytime are fukking lamers. i asked my friend should guys pay for everything time they do stuff and she said yes. i asked her then what do girls pay for? shes like she pays him by having sex... im like so during sex only the guy enjoys it right???? so during that time it only makes sense that only the guy gets to finish and the girl get to cliffhanger right? RETARDED
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Ive dated this girl who was either really cheap or expected the guy to pay every time. Actually Ive dated a couple of girls like this. Ive given them a few opportunities to get the bill, but they never do. When the bill comes, one of the girl will look like she is trying to reach for her wallet, but nothing ever comes out. The other girl just sits there. Not even a thank you afterwards. Needless to say, none of them lasted all that long.
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people that excepts others to pay for them are just spoiled and disrespectful.
so save your time and money and find someone worth it
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Old 10-08-2009, 12:50 AM   #17
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cheap date does not matter. The thing should matter is the quality time spent.

Anyways, I do not know what kind of girls you are dating. I know that most of the girls nowadays are very independent when it comes to money. True story. :-p

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cheap date does not matter. The thing should matter is the quality time spent.

Anyways, I do not what kind of girls you are dating. I know that most of the girls nowadays are very independent when it comes to money. True story. :-p
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If I had a girl who offered to pay for everything, I'd let her do it.
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i think i ordered 5 rounds of drinks. She decided to buy me a drink, and proceeded to tip the bartender a quarter.

that is cheap.

never picked up her calls again.
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I think guys should pay on the first date, just out of courtesy. I guess I'm old-fashioned that way, but I still make that attempt to reach for my wallet. And then afterwards, I think it's fair if people just take turns paying for the dinner bills.

One cheapo that I dated...we went to bubble tea for a first date. When the bill came, he slapped down a 20, but I offered to pay for my half at least. I gave him a $10 bill expecting him to give me the change he had in his wallet or the change he was going to get from his 20, but nope....he just pocketed the $10. Now I know my bubble tea did not cost $10...So really, I ended up paying for the bill.
i kno ppl like this too, there are many cheapo's out there...i'd pay for the first few dates but if the girl just "offers" it's a good sign.

Some girls/guys i know conveniently gotta go to the "washroom" when the bill comes. Once we pulled a prank on a buddy and waited till he came back from the washroom, and he ended up saying he had no money...haha, it was pretty funny and embarrasing for him in front of a girl he liked
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Vancouver is full of cheapo's (male and female) who like to act they are generous. Most downtown chicks are cheapo's because there is always some "dude" who will pay for her shit and do whatever she wants because he wants to hang with her and hopes by paying, he will get in her jeans.

True story, a girl I know who is young and hot, took a picture of a Betsey Johnson dress and sent the pic to her male friend....and 2hrs later the geek (drives Porsche, lives in Yaletown, powered by dad) shows up at her place with the dress.......he is dating her now....but has too pay for everything....I mean everything.....he is happy, because even though he gets stroked, he also gets to fuck a chick hotter than he thought he could....I am not saying it is right, but this is what happens in Vancouver........this is why Vancouver chicks have fucked up attitudes.....
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I'm ok with paying on the first date, since my first dates are usually not expensive to begin with.

I'm more down with atmosphere, and an environment that promotes close conversation than what number on the boller-o-rater it is.

I'm not down with women that don't reach for it, or ones that cop rides/eats/etc 'cuz their cheap and i DESPISE women who just sit there and demand that their man will be the one who provides everything.

There's a term for that: Illusion of Entitlement. <----main reason most of them don't get a second or third date with me.
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Vancouver is full of cheapo's (male and female) who like to act they are generous. Most downtown chicks are cheapo's because there is always some "dude" who will pay for her shit and do whatever she wants because he wants to hang with her and hopes by paying, he will get in her jeans.

True story, a girl I know who is young and hot, took a picture of a Betsey Johnson dress and sent the pic to her male friend....and 2hrs later the geek (drives Porsche, lives in Yaletown, powered by dad) shows up at her place with the dress.......he is dating her now....but has too pay for everything....I mean everything.....he is happy, because even though he gets stroked, he also gets to fuck a chick hotter than he thought he could....I am not saying it is right, but this is what happens in Vancouver........this is why Vancouver chicks have fucked up attitudes.....
chicks out here have so much attitude because there's so many guys that spoil the shit outta them.
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It depends on the nature of it. If she completely has no interest in you and you're in a position where you are still trying to win someone over, the generosity makes sense.

Myself personally, even if both the girl and I both mutually like each other, I wouldn't ask out a girl to do something unless I have the capacity to bear responsibility for the whole night. I would appreciate any financial help she "may" provide but it's not a requirement for me.

Other than one filipina chick who expected to be princessed, I haven't had too much trouble with this. A lot of the girls I've been with have been courteous.
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Friend of mine finally got a date with a guy she really liked... she ended up paying for everything, and at the end of the night, he offered (in his great generosity) to go home with her... by that point she was pissed off enough to just tell him to get bent.

I said she should have told him, "I'm cheap OR easy, but not both."
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