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Old 11-26-2010, 08:59 AM   #26
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A few pictures of her making out. With the ex. With a timestamp of last week. With alize.

I was FURRRRRRRRRIOUSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was also stupid and didn't just dump her right there and then, instead I wimp'd out and asked for an explanation and got all "silent-angry" and listened to her attempt to say sorry. All in all, not my wisest moment, relationship wise.

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A week later, we're working on some gift thing and I pick up her camera to take pictures of the gift.

Take a picture, press play, go back a picture and what do I see?

A few pictures of her making out. With the ex. With a timestamp of last week. With alize.

I was FURRRRRRRRRIOUSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was also stupid and didn't just dump her right there and then, instead I wimp'd out and asked for an explanation and got all "silent-angry" and listened to her attempt to say sorry. All in all, not my wisest moment, relationship wise.
Oh man, that's horrible. Please tell me that you've dumped this stupid bitch.
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One of my ex's had an ex that would come over and drop stuff off. They were trying to re conciliate their friendship after not talking for a while.

One time we had an argument because he wanted to come over, and it went like this.

me: "fuck that, I'm already here, why is it so important that you see him?"
her: "i haven't seen him in like a week!"
me: "...are you serious?"
her: "yes." starts pouting. "besides, he's close by and just wanted to drop something off"
me: "whatever fine. i'm going home then"

So I get my stuff and leave, and the guy is outside already. He lives a good 15 minutes away, so he obviously was hanging around the area, waiting to come regardless of me leaving or not.

In his hand is a bottle of Alize.

Who comes to see an ex with alcohol?!

Anyways, I left. I was too pissed off.


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A week later, we're working on some gift thing and I pick up her camera to take pictures of the gift.

Take a picture, press play, go back a picture and what do I see?

A few pictures of her making out. With the ex. With a timestamp of last week. With alize.

I was FURRRRRRRRRIOUSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was also stupid and didn't just dump her right there and then, instead I wimp'd out and asked for an explanation and got all "silent-angry" and listened to her attempt to say sorry. All in all, not my wisest moment, relationship wise.

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Are you fuckin serious? This bitch deserves to get used and abused. Damn if you can't even trust your own gf who can you trust?
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Just a shot in the dark... is the GF filipino?

Just some back story. My ex (who was flip) had the whole godbrother BS going on, where the guy (who works in Japan or something) would send her a few hundred bucks every once in awhile and buy her expensive shit; at first behind my back. By the time I figured it out, I told her to tell him to stop it, and he did.

However, towards the end of the relationship, the guy basically professes his love for her. Then a few weeks later accuses me of cheating on her; even though I've never met him before, he doesn't know what I look like, and he lives across the fucking Pacific Ocean. The fact she was crazy (in a literal sense) enough to believe him (or at least to doubt me), just made me realize I had to gtfo.
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fuck are people still doing the godbrother god sister thing? thats another thing for... "the guy/girl that wants to fuck me, but i wont let them cuz they ugly." or they are 13 years old
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Guy only wants to get into girls pant. Is nature lol.

And to the OP you aren't doing your job as the bf so you deverse to get cheated on.
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Put him on the spot and ask how he knows her, I mean godbrother? I don't know what that is, but ignorance is bliss. This godbrother/sister thing sounds just dumb, anyways ask him how he knows her whats their relation and shake his hand tell him your her boyfriend and be absolutely cool with them hanging out. Just go through the formalities. If you act jealous, she's going to like him. People want what they can't have, if you're too busy for her while she's always with him she's going to miss you and wonder why. Of course be flexible and not neglect her. He's not going to get any, maybe if she gets drunk even then I doubt it. This is me assuming you have decent game.

I would never date a girl who goes with this godbrother bullshit, never heard of i sounds dumb, call him your friend for fucks sakes.
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Fuck man just dump her.

If it's giving you this much stress and she doesn't care, that's just a sign that she's not a good gf.

Or keep her around, and get as many godsisters to suck your cock as you can. You guys sound young, take it from someone with experience. Don't put yourself in a shitty position, especially if you guys ARE young (22 and under). Lifes short man, go have your fun. If she wants to keep this up, like a said above, she's not gf material, and you don't want to find out 3 years down the road.
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If it's giving you this much stress and she doesn't care, that's just a sign that she's not a good gf.

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Yeah I'd have to agree with a bunch of people in here. Basically, you've become an option because you haven't done that well of a job as her BF. She's using him to fill in what you aren't doing.

I've been in the same situation, my ex had a best friend who happened to be a guy. I was cool with it until she told me he said he had feelings for her (apparently they did shit too as "friends".) She said she was "confused." Set off warning signs over here and got the fuck out of there as soon as I could. I learned two things about chicks with this "god brother" type thing:

1. She'll keep both of you around for convenience (and shes a total bitch for doing so)
2. If she tells you that "nothing" will come out of it, that's pretty much bullshit because eventually she'll start thinking "what if" with the other fool. vafaculo is right in the sens that if she doesn't care, she isn't a good GF.

v.Rossi nailed it on the head. Be straight up with this dude, establish who you are and don't make yourself look bad in front of your GF.
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Haha women, they're such a work of art. Keeping guys on a leash and this and that. Giving womanese talk like "I'm confused." Bullshit at it's absolute finest.

The sane ones are the blunt ones, "I'm sorry but I'm not interested." These kinda women I respect and appreciate, if you further chase it's only your fault.

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WHAT THE FUCK IS A GOD BROTHER?

If people (in general) don't want to be stirring up shit.
they shouldn't be so close to the opposite sex regardless.

This is just bullshit.
Why the hell would any guy be so helpful to some girl if he wasn't into her.
Mr. Nice guy my ass.

GF fails too for having "backup" guy.
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WHAT THE FUCK IS A GOD BROTHER?

If people (in general) don't want to be stirring up shit.
they shouldn't be so close to the opposite sex regardless.

This is just bullshit.
Why the hell would any guy be so helpful to some girl if he wasn't into her.
Mr. Nice guy my ass.

GF fails too for having "backup" guy.
EXACTLY. I'm always telling ppl that no guy will go out of his way for a chick that he's not into...

Then they tell me "oh nooooo he's just a nice guy!"
Shut the fuck up, he's not just "being nice."
He obviously wants something from you
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What a load of bullcrap. Why would a girl need a "god brother" if she has you to rely on? If she can't rely on you, then something isn't right with this relationship. Op, have you questioned her as to why this "god brother" exists? I would understand if she has a male friend who she talks to here and there but actually bringing your girl food and gifts, doesn't this guy have anything better to do? Why is he investing so much time in your girl?

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Oh man, that's horrible. Please tell me that you've dumped this stupid bitch.
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Haha women, they're such a work of art. Keeping guys on a leash and this and that. Giving womanese talk like "I'm confused." Bullshit at it's absolute finest.

The sane ones are the blunt ones, "I'm sorry but I'm not interested." These kinda women I respect and appreciate, if you further chase it's only your fault.

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that reminded me of this...forward to :20
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As a girl who has several guys in the friend zone. This guy isn't a threat to you. Girls don't date the guy in the friend zone. BUT having them means if you aren't doing your job as a boyfriend, we're quite happy to leave your ass because we still have someone to go hang out with until someone new comes into the boyfriend zone and hopefully someone who has the sense step up and at least try to do better.

Also if you attack the friend zone guy. You will lose. He does more more for us then you do. He's been there forever and a month and will be there when we're done with you. Your best bet is to become friends with friend zone guy. He's usually a good guy and will back off when he knows you're not an asshole.
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I will have to say OP that this whole "god-brother" shit is sketchy for sure...
He's clearly trying to pull something when he's dropping off shit at her door cuz if he can text her that its there, why can't he just give it to her?
Like we all understand that girls need guy friends to talk about things that they're not comfortable talking to their BF about and thats cool and all. But when he starts going the extra mile for this "friendship", thats another thing to reconsider.

I think that you should really consider confronting her about this or to the guy that you feel uncomfortable about this and if she's GF material, im sure she'll understand. If she pulls out the whole "quit being so sensitive we're just good friends" typa bullshit then you got yourself a situation.
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If you trust your girl, and as long as she isn't lying or hiding shit from you about this guy, I don't think you really have anything to worry about.

Very true that girls like to keep these sort of guys around because they're, well, handy.

There's no doubt in my mind that he does have feelings for her, but he's most likely just that sucker that she's using to get things that she doesn't get from you. Sounds like he's probably in the friend zone.

I have to agree with TheNewGirl though. You never attack that "sucker nice guy" in front of her because you WILL lose by looking insecure, jealous, and untrusting, so you might as well befriend him.
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It's hard NOT to look like the bad guy in the anon-OP's situation because

1) It would look like he's a jealous, insecure prick if he complained about the whole ordeal.

2) It could sort of seem like this so-called "godbrother" is full-fulling the needs of this guy's gf because the OP has failed to do these himself.


Given these circumstances, there's no real safe and easy way of approaching this situation without getting any type of backlash, regardless of how minor it is. However, you ARE the bf. You are ALLOWED to protect your girl to yourself because that's all part of being in a relationship.

I would suggest just going up to the guy one time and tell him straight up that you don't like what he's doing. Even tell him that the whole godbrother/godsister thing is complete BULLSHIT because it obviously is. He'll use that against you saying that it's completely harmless and that he's just trying to be nice and/or helpful.

Just tell him that you're a guy, he's a guy, and you can clearly interpret what his actions mean, and what his true intentions/motives are. YOU are the boyfriend and YOU are the only one who needs to and will take care of your girl. Finally, tell him nicely to just fuck off once and for all, and that he needs to respect your wishes. If he doesn't, then don't be as friendly for your next encounter.

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One of my ex's had an ex that would come over and drop stuff off. They were trying to re conciliate their friendship after not talking for a while.

One time we had an argument because he wanted to come over, and it went like this.

me: "fuck that, I'm already here, why is it so important that you see him?"
her: "i haven't seen him in like a week!"
me: "...are you serious?"
her: "yes." starts pouting. "besides, he's close by and just wanted to drop something off"
me: "whatever fine. i'm going home then"

So I get my stuff and leave, and the guy is outside already. He lives a good 15 minutes away, so he obviously was hanging around the area, waiting to come regardless of me leaving or not.

In his hand is a bottle of Alize.

Who comes to see an ex with alcohol?!

Anyways, I left. I was too pissed off.


.....

A week later, we're working on some gift thing and I pick up her camera to take pictures of the gift.

Take a picture, press play, go back a picture and what do I see?

A few pictures of her making out. With the ex. With a timestamp of last week. With alize.

I was FURRRRRRRRRIOUSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was also stupid and didn't just dump her right there and then, instead I wimp'd out and asked for an explanation and got all "silent-angry" and listened to her attempt to say sorry. All in all, not my wisest moment, relationship wise.

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Wow, just wow.

But seriously....when you saw the bottle in his hand, did nothing go through your head?

There's only one goal in mind when you're waiting outside a girl's house with a bottle of alize....
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I would've dumped that bitch in a heart beat.

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