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Depends how reasonable your gf is. If she isn't crazy, it won't lead to the next thing just because of a cell pw. I don't get where all these people are getting that idea from. sometimes it's handy when my gf knows my pw, So she can check my texts or whatever when i'm driving. Girls are just like that. They want to feel that you trust them And you draw the line at this. She doesn't have data so she wants to use your phone. She won't want your PIN, cause it has no logical benefits. Don't have to blow things out of proportion. Posted via RS Mobile |
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what an inconsequential thing to be a problem over. If this is the biggest issue of your relationship then you probably have it pretty good. I understand the whole privacy thing, but if you unlock and let her use it anyway, what's the difference from telling her the code? |
^The difference is that his privacy would be gone since the point was to keep the pin code private. It's like asking why she makes a fuss even though he unlocks it for her whenever she asks. Posted via RS Mobile |
^ Just the simple display of mutual trust. Now I guess this will vary from couple to couple. My gf knows my phone pw and I know hers. It's not a big deal, there's nothing to hide. And even with the fact that we know each other's pw, we never actually use each other's phones. The principle of trust is there, while we don't step over any boundaries. And never once, did we make it a discussion to try to obtain each other's PIN or any bank related info. So contrary to belief (from some posters in this thread), revealing phone pw's don't start a whole chain of disastrous events. |
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yup i agree. just cause i think she's a keeper, doesn't mean i can budge on some personal / important issues. eg// i would never tell my gf how much money i have in my account, my pin number etc. |
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also never open a joint bank account. if you MUST, keep the bulk of your $ in a seperate account. I have a wife and kid, but if shit goes sideways someday, at least I'll have $ to move on. |
I kinda have the same issue but I just get really paranoid when my gf reads my texts or goes through my phone just in case she finds something she finds sketchy cause she doesnt trust me. but I would say just tell her the code, its eventually going to be a huge problem |
isnt there apps that can hide stuff.. BTW, SOs do get anal about it... the more you say no the worse it gets... either tell it to her or say :fuckthatshit: and break it off with her.. |
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If its such a problem to her I wouldnt let her use the phone anymore. Problem solved. Its your phone and you want security and privacy in with it and you deserve that. You let her poke around it after you unlock it and that should be enough. Life in a relationship is all about boundries respect and compromise. She should respect your boundries and be happy with your compromise. |
One thing I learned is to never use a personal phone to mack LGs with.someone needs to take OP under their wing and teach him the ways...unfortunately I've been out of the game for so long I'm getting rusty :( Sweetie I love you if you are reading this on my phone ;) |
Doesn't matter who you're talking to on the other side. Girls, guys, family, that's not the point. When you're texting someone, that conversation is between you and the other person. If there's something you want to show or talk about with your SO, or anyone for that matter, that should be under your discretion only. Your SO shouldn't be able to barge in and look at whatever he/she wants, and whenever he/she wants. It makes sense to have a password, so you let your SO look at your phone under your supervision only. That way they're not snooping when you're sleeping, in the shower, etc. Different relationships will have different boundaries. But relationships with zero boundaries are not healthy. Some people are more open, others are less. |
You should've mentioned in the original post that you caught her snooping through your messages, that's a big no-no. My ex-gf was privy to my computer and phone all the time, until I caught her browsing through my Outlook. Privilege lost. |
i understand that a man needs his privacy but if u got nothing to hide and it matters to u how ur lady feels, just be the bigger man and give it up. she wont be mad, shell appreciate it more, and u wont be annoyed but as far as ppl u dont give much of a fuck abt, they dont deserve ur passcode lol |
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