[Confidential] Bored with sex

[dinosaur]

Originally Posted by 6793026

I wish I could ask the same "what are you trying to accomplish" question to the girls that are being a bitch and dating guys for their money asking for LV bags and dating guys that are total douche bags or those who buys them tons of stuff..... but that's another thread.

DO IT!

Those bitches need to be asked that question over and over again to get it through their head that that shit again cool and they are a waste of time, effort, and energy.

And, at the same time....the dude needs to be asked, "why put up with that shit?"

[BigTrollFace]

GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY


or just hit up hotter girls

[SumAznGuy]

Originally Posted by El Bastardo

The following is an anonymous post. If the original poster would like to reply to any comments, please PM me
I sound like a girl, but I'm thinking that maybe I want to be in love with a girl and then the sex from that would be great. I'm currently dating a girl at my school and it's been great. Lots of things in common, don't know if it's love yet.

At this point, I'm not horny for her and I don't want to have sex.

OP, let me ask you this? Do you ever feel horny? Are you a chronic masturbator?
Are you on any meds? Do you workout a lot?

At your age, you should be in the prime of your sexual urges. It could be a chemical imbalance issue that is cause the lack of sex drive.
Or like someone else posted, fapping a little too much to pron has made you numb.

It is possible that you are having sex with people you have no longterm interst in, or that they are inexperienced and just not that good in bed with, but it is your lack of sexual desire with this current girl that has me questioning something else.

[Tapioca]

Originally Posted by 6793026

I wish I could ask the same "what are you trying to accomplish" question to the girls that are being a bitch and dating guys for their money asking for LV bags and dating guys that are total douche bags or those who buys them tons of stuff..... but that's another thread.

Because they need validation from their possessions as their lives have no intrinsic value?

Men buying women fancy things used to bug me some, but I've learned that fancy things can't buy class or make a person any classier. Similarly, buying women things doesn't make a man any more masculine.
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[El Bastardo]

The following is a reply from the anonymous original poster

I'm not sexually attracted to the girl I'm dating, but I am emotionally. I know saying that "we have a lot in common, we have fun together" gets the reaction of "why don't you just be friends then because friends do that". But she's someone that I can see a future with. Someone with very similar goals in life, morals, temperament, values and interests that I feel are ideal to what I want in a girlfriend. Perhaps I'm expecting a little much for my first real relationship, but that's how I feel. I don't know what's going to happen once I graduate, she has her mindset to return to her home country and I'm thinking the same too. I'm not expecting a lot in this relationship. We haven't really discussed whether it's LTR, but we're having a lot of fun, laughing and I feel really connected to her.

I feel like such a girl when I'm typing this out and searching for my non-existent vagina (I hope), but I've never been happier. Although I don't want to have sex with her now, doesn't mean I don't think I ever will. Anything can happen. Maybe she'll do something really cute and I just can't help myself but kiss her. Right now I'm focusing on building our relationship and when the next level comes, hopefully it does. I don't want to break up with her because I don't want to have sex.
I'm also not taking any medication and my testosterone level is fine according to my blood tests from the start of the month.
To answer some questions:
I agree maybe I'm fapping way too much and I'm willing to stop to see if that's the problem.. I stopped for a good month before and I think I'll start it again.
My testosterone level is fine according to my blood tests done at the start of the month.
I am not gay.
I do not work out a lot. Currently sick will pick up again.
I do feel horny at times during the day.

[dinosaur]

Maybe you are sleeping with the girls you are dating too fast? Turn your focus into like THEM not their vagina.

Date these girls for a while. Fall for them emotionally before you have sex....try it and see if it is any different.

[Powerslide]

OP is not gay.
I went through a similar phase around the same age. I didn't count bathroom tiles but I can relate.

OP, it gets a lot less boring when emotions are involved.
But that being said, relationship sex can get boring too. It's a question of learning how to get yourself into sex, and like other posters have mentioned, figuring out what turns you on.

Good luck!

PS: is there a thread already for the 'what are you trying to achieve' topic we're talking about too?

[Psykopathik]

+1 for not fapping non stop. Even prime rib tastes like hamburger when you get it all the time.

starve yourself, then It'll be the best goddamn steak of your life.