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Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...
The thing is, they're all solid friendships that I can honestly see lasting forever. The only thing is that if I wanted to join, I would have to completely cut them out because of what they are involved in or have been involved in. But you're right, I have to do what's best for me, just really sucks.
True friendships endure, no matter the distance or the time constraints. You'll just have less of them as you get older. There simply isn't time to maintain all friendships to the same degree when life gets in the way.
Besides, the only friendship that should matter in the end is the one between you and your spouse/partner.
True friendships endure, no matter the distance or the time constraints. You'll just have less of them as you get older. There simply isn't time to maintain all friendships to the same degree when life gets in the way.
Besides, the only friendship that should matter in the end is the one between you and your spouse/partner.
For VPD/RCMP, it's not so much the friendship, it's what they do in their lives.. That probably being an illegal substance or doing something illegal. During the intake process it's quite extensive and they dig into all your friends and family. And anything they dig up from them, shines a bad light on you aswell.
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For VPD/RCMP, it's not so much the friendship, it's what they do in their lives.. That probably being an illegal substance or doing something illegal. During the intake process it's quite extensive and they dig into all your friends and family. And anything they dig up from them, shines a bad light on you aswell.
Well, it's probably a blessing in disguise as it's a good idea to start to shed negative influences as you get older. Invest in your time in people who add value to your life.
The thing is, they're all solid friendships that I can honestly see lasting forever. The only thing is that if I wanted to join, I would have to completely cut them out because of what they are involved in or have been involved in. But you're right, I have to do what's best for me, just really sucks.
At the end of the day, do what's best for you... I am no police officer but personally I try not to associate with people who do "shady" things just because I'm a judgmental prick like that (srs).
That being said, I am sure your friendship is important, but what YOU want should be more important. This is your dream job and you can easily clear $100k/year with a moderate amount of overtime; pull a little more than that, and you'll be earning enough to buy a house in the GVRD and raise a family all by yourself. With a spouse who makes anywhere near that, you are living quite well.
Maybe I'm more "detached" but I think being able to have that kind of future surpasses any friendship... have you tried talking to your friend about their illegal activity? Who knows, maybe they'll hear you out and cut that crap out of their life.
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So many feels.
20 years old and still have to "meet the right girl". Basically no relationship experience. Where is my life going..... :'(
20 years old, and you speak like it's the end of the world because you have no relationship experience.
It's a good thing you are venting it here and hopefully not out there because it's a slippery slope. Insecurity reeks to women worse than any day-old body odor you may have.
Word of advice: There is no one right girl for every guy and no one right guy for every girl. That is reality. Can you imagine if a bear was waiting for the perfect salmon to fly into his mouth with the correct amount of meat and fat content and spat out every one that didn't meet the criteria? That bear would fucking starve.
Met some friends with the same dream career as I have, started volunteering and giving back to the community which feels great and to top it off my start-up business is finally kicking off.
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