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Guys, chill.. it's difficult to explain things here without being misinterpreted which has been happening throughout the thread. I won't bother explain anything previously misinterpreted.
I'm not staying with her. Sorry for using "gf," but you know what I mean. I'm also not just going to cut her off; it's not going to work. I'd just get constant texts, calls to my cell, calls to my house, etc. It might work for some but with her.
Yes I could just confront her, but I want to her to admit it herself. She knows I'm onto her, but whether or not she admits it, it ends on Monday.
Good to hear. I hope it all goes well and ends well.
The following is a reply from the anonymous original poster
Guys, chill.. it's difficult to explain things here without being misinterpreted which has been happening throughout the thread. I won't bother explain anything previously misinterpreted.
I'm not staying with her. Sorry for using "gf," but you know what I mean. I'm also not just going to cut her off; it's not going to work. I'd just get constant texts, calls to my cell, calls to my house, etc. It might work for some but with her.
Yes I could just confront her, but I want to her to admit it herself. She knows I'm onto her, but whether or not she admits it, it ends on Monday.
What does this look like to you? An episode of One Tree Hill?
The more time you give yourself to break up with her, the more pain it is to yourself since you are the one head over heels for her. It also gives her time to discover the truth (the 'other guy' have probably already told her the truth). She will become defensive and will be the one dumping your ass rather than you (assuming she is the alpha of this relationship)
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OP, I'm pretty sure your GF and Nick have spoken since your confrontation with him. I can guarantee that she is formulating a way to break up with you. Don't give her time to turn the tables. You wait till Monday, and you'll be dumped before Sunday is over.
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The following is a reply from the anonymous original poster
Guys, chill.. it's difficult to explain things here without being misinterpreted which has been happening throughout the thread. I won't bother explain anything previously misinterpreted.
I'm not staying with her. Sorry for using "gf," but you know what I mean. I'm also not just going to cut her off; it's not going to work. I'd just get constant texts, calls to my cell, calls to my house, etc. It might work for some but with her.
Yes I could just confront her, but I want to her to admit it herself. She knows I'm onto her, but whether or not she admits it, it ends on Monday.
why Monday? Why not now. Is not hard. Just tell her you want to break up due to her cheating. Pack your things and leave. No need to look back.
She taught me right from wrong and always told me to stay positive and help others no matter how small the deed - that helping others gives us meaning to carry on. The sun is out today and it's a new day. Life is good. I just needed a slap in the face.
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dinosaur: What I meant was that I'm not going to break up by suddenly cutting all contact.
Stealthy: Monday is when I see her. Not trying to be dramatic.
Gnomes: Thanks. There was only pain the day I actually found out. Surprised about myself not caring after.
Presto: Yes they have. He stopped talking to her though. He feels she's trying to ruin him also. She's not trying to break up with me, I know that for sure.
Mr.HappySlip: That's when I see her. I'd rather do it face to face, and she'll either deny it or break down. I'm used to her crying all the time and usually I don't react lol so it won't make me change my mind.
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She taught me right from wrong and always told me to stay positive and help others no matter how small the deed - that helping others gives us meaning to carry on. The sun is out today and it's a new day. Life is good. I just needed a slap in the face.
I don't know if you did it already, but the more time you delay and 'confront,' screen cap her phone and all that shit, the more it looks bad on your part. If she's diligent, she'll have no evidence, and you'll come off as that greasy jealous guy.
Do it face to face, she'll deny it and you're going to say you have enough reason to believe that she's not being truthful. Say you're goodbyes and wish her luck with her whoring career.
At this point, your buddy who's in the room next door, plays the stone cold steve austin theme song and and tosses you two beers. You crack it open jump on the top rope and tell her to get the fuck out.
Get out of the relationship asap and get out there. I'd hate to say it, but it seems like you just want to drag it on because you may be clinging onto something that's gone.
Why the fuck are you playing games?? It seems like your the one wearing the g string in this relationship or whatever the fuck it is. Man up and confront her. If you don't want to cut her loose than that's your decision. Right now your more of the pussy than she is.
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