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Old 01-17-2015, 07:43 PM   #20201
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i thought i would stop caring as i no longer see or hear from you, but there you are popping into my dreams and there i am watching out for you..telling you it's a bad fit, don't accept it, they are lying to you, you won't like it, trust me. you lean in like old times, but out of respect, i put my hand in front.

wtf is up with these dreams. is the unconscious somehow connected to the conscious?

i guess the lesson is, we are all inherently built to care even if they are now a 'used to be'.

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Old 01-17-2015, 08:47 PM   #20202
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Another way to get over it? Buy car parts. Build your car. Not to be confused with buying a nicer car, because you need to toil on the project to get over it.
this. i made the mistake of being very depressed and buying a shiny brand new pickup. oh well, you live and you learn. i now have a very strong desire to purchase a project car but with this loan hanging over my head and the possibility of the economy going to shit real soon, my dreams have to be put on hold once again.
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Old 01-19-2015, 02:26 PM   #20203
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i thought i would stop caring as i no longer see or hear from you, but there you are popping into my dreams and there i am watching out for you..telling you it's a bad fit, don't accept it, they are lying to you, you won't like it, trust me. you lean in like old times, but out of respect, i put my hand in front.

wtf is up with these dreams. is the unconscious somehow connected to the conscious?

i guess the lesson is, we are all inherently built to care even if they are now a 'used to be'.
Gets better with time and refocusing your mind on other stuff.
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Old 01-19-2015, 04:47 PM   #20204
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Old 01-19-2015, 08:48 PM   #20205
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how can someone who used to love me so much, remove me out of her life like that....i fucking miss you babe.
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Old 01-19-2015, 10:23 PM   #20206
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how can someone who used to love me so much, remove me out of her life like that....i fucking miss you babe.


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Old 01-19-2015, 11:38 PM   #20207
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Why am I so dumb? you only now call me when you're drunk then you say all this stupid bull crap and I still fall for it...
I don't even work at the same place with you any more.
I texted you the day I was finished there saying " hey it's official, I won't be working here any more but let's just have dinner one last time and after we can both do our own thing" you called that night i didn't pick up , Called you the next day you said no, you still want to see me and your vacation week is next week, that you'll have more time to spend with me..
here I am ....just waiting wasting my time over you...you're such a loser.
I wish you didn't come up , talk to me and got my number and been such a sweetheart all the time........
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Old 01-22-2015, 12:26 PM   #20208
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Some days, love seems like the most important thing that I'm missing... and other days, it's great being able to screw around and have no one to answer to. It's fucking me up going back and forth between the two extremes. It's gotten to a point where I can hardly tell if I'm obsessively into this person and want something more, or if I just want to fuck them.

I really want some kind of 'feeling' or 'knowing' to hit me on the head to tell me what I'm feeling and what I need to do... anyone understand these feels? *sigh*
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Old 01-22-2015, 12:33 PM   #20209
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I wish you would do what your suppose to do instead of making excuses on how and why you cant or shouldnt do what you should do.
Just do it....
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Old 01-22-2015, 12:52 PM   #20210
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I believe cars are meant to be driven. I see zero point in having a beautiful car and never driving it. Might as well have Miranda Kerr in your bed and sleeping on the ground cause you don't want to fudge her mascara...

We go through our entire lives being told what to do every step of the way. The garage was always the one place where you could indulge in your own passion, with not a care for the outside world.
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Old 01-22-2015, 04:25 PM   #20211
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I really want to talk to you, but I wonder how many other guys are making you smile as well.. that feeling sucks.
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Old 01-22-2015, 04:32 PM   #20212
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Old 01-23-2015, 10:39 AM   #20213
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This kristy_blitzgear girl, I want to date the shit out of her.

I enjoy reading her articles so much, I really do feel like I found my soulmate
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Old 01-23-2015, 11:32 AM   #20214
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This kristy_blitzgear girl, I want to date the shit out of her.

I enjoy reading her articles so much, I really do feel like I found my soulmate
I'm so happy for you man, you found your soulmate.
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Old 01-23-2015, 03:51 PM   #20215
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Old 01-23-2015, 08:42 PM   #20216
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I usually get along really well with my coworkers, and a few of them are my best friends, but this one guy just makes me want to pull my hair out. Can't stand him, holy shit.
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Old 01-24-2015, 08:18 PM   #20217
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Isn't it funny how we nickname the anus as 'an asshole'?
Isn't it funny how we nickname a stupid fucking idiot as 'an asshole'?
You know what's really ironic?
The anus actually gives a shit. Maybe we should stop referring to stupid fucking idiots as 'assholes' because that would be complimenting them
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Old 01-25-2015, 12:40 AM   #20218
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if you a grown-ass wo/man and you still gossiping... you need to re-evaluate your life

some motherfuckers have a new piece of information about somebody else every day
i don't care, son
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Old 01-25-2015, 07:19 AM   #20219
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oh boy... valentines day's around the corner...
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Old 01-25-2015, 08:11 AM   #20220
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I am wrong.
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Old 01-25-2015, 12:31 PM   #20221
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oh boy... valentines day's around the corner...
Call me crazy but I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 years now and we never celebrate it. Not to hate, but Valentines' is just a Hallmark (commercialized) holiday. It has no meaning to my relationship. The irony is that if there was an "opposite" to Valentines, the feminazis would be up in arms at the idea of women spending tons of $$ wining, dining, and giving gifts to men for literally no reason.

And then there's the single people, who act like it's such a horrible, pitiable thing to be single on Valentines' (no offense intended to anyone on here). On the flip side of that there are the taken people - usually girls - who go apeshit on social media, showing off what they're doing/what gifts they got/what they're wearing that day. Good job, you/your bf just wasted hundreds of dollars on...guess what? It's a MEANINGLESS holiday. Being single or taken on Valentines' is the same as being single or taken on any other day.

Instead, I find it more meaningful to surprise her on random days with flowers sent to her work, surprise "nice" dinner dates, and buy her random gifts that she isn't expecting. Or show up unexpected with a box of cupcakes when she's on her period, bring her soup when she's sick, make breakfast in bed etc. It's much more fun and fulfilling for me to do those things when I want to, rather than when I "have" to.

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Old 01-25-2015, 01:41 PM   #20222
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It's a MEANINGLESS holiday. Being single or taken on Valentines' is the same as being single or taken on any other day.
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Old 01-25-2015, 04:57 PM   #20223
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I usually get along really well with my coworkers, and a few of them are my best friends, but this one guy just makes me want to pull my hair out. Can't stand him, holy shit.
eventually you'll start having feelings for the guy lol
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Old 01-25-2015, 09:20 PM   #20224
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So instead of trying to solve the problem or admit his mistake and suffer the consequences, my boyfriend decides the logical thing to do is cancel the event so that there is no conflict or issue at all. I just don't get it.
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Valentine's Day is coming up and I just really want to make him happy but I don't know any way of doing so that doesn't include sending him car parts as gifts and now I'm sad because I can't think of anything to do to make him happy
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