So I've been reading her FB comments, and all the dirt the morons have been digging up on her.

Sounds like she's recently divorced, and her kids, or one of her kids, has disowned her, no doubt she's going through a lot of shit.
So I could see someone that's going through a lot, being extremely annoyed/grouchy with everyone

So here she is, presented with someone giving her a hard time for her own stupidity (parking like a fool) and this old lady just can't deal with life anymore, so she's gonna hit out at this stranger, even though she's in the wrong, she wants someone else to feel as bad as she does

And she hits out the easiest way possible, taboos, race/sex/weight/etc doesn't make it right of course, but I can see someone who isn't normally racist, do racist things, jusy because they want to hurt someone else, because they're hurting

For me, my reaction to that, isn't to hit back in anger, I actually pity them, and that would probably make the person feel worse, than if you hit back in anger

For a lot of these people giving her hell right now, they're the same, they're feeling sad n down about life, and they want to hit out at someone to make themselves feel better, to feel like they did something good, so they attack this crazy old lady, but they feel completely justified

I'm curious if the chinese lady already had the camera rolling when white lady came back to her car, or if it was some time after the confrontation started.

If it's the former then being greeted with a camera on you when you're not expecting it is definately going to antagonize the situation and lead to further bad decisions. I mean this lady knew it was her fault she hit the other car, she's probably embarassed and now is confronted with a camera in her face. She's not exactly thinking straight at this point so she goes off the deep end.

Has no one here ever said hurtful things in the heat of the moment that you don't actually mean?

Do you think that one shitty thing should 100% define your character?

I think most people HERE are being reasonable (well a few people went looking for her facebook, but I assume that's mostly to see the shit show).

I think most reasonable people assume that yeah, she's probably a shitty racist deep inside, and it came out during a moment of extreme frustration. But I think everyone deserves the chance to redeem themselves, and almost everyone can (some things are beyond redemption IMO, but to each their own)

it's pretty obvious that the person trying to flee the scene is the one who caused the damage, and the one recording is the victim. if someone hit my car, i wouldn't be hurling insults while getting in my car and leaving.

thats exactly what it was. a shit show.

this lady is done for.

did we not learn anything from the 2011 riots?
or from Terry Benadict in Oceans 11 - "someone is always watching"....

That's some of the most ridiculous shit I've ever heard. Someone says something mean to you and the first thing that comes to your mind is "I'm going to ruin your life".

Who's the actual cunt in this situation? Both people sound like pieces of shit, you might actually get along if you met under different circumstances.

Something tells me you've never worked a job that consists entirely of solving multiple complex issues daily yet have no idea what it could be until it's in front of you.
If you had, you'd know that scheduling can almost be redundant at times.

there's no excuse for racism. you can call someone an asshole or a bitch in a heated moment, if you're going to call someone a nigger or a chink or tell them to go back to their country, those are low blows and totally says a lot about your character.

Someone leaked her cell phone number. lol

Her actions were uncalled for. When I flip out, I just give them middle finger and move the fuck on. Only in Canada you can get away with these kinda things, if it's in USA, call a black guy a nigga, your brains would be spewing out on the ground already.

she's doubling down when media contacted her, so that's not really one shitty thing, she's just showing her true colours

Far be it from me to host a pity party. Just saying there are a multitude of ways for people to see division. And there are better ways of handling it so people can still retain their dignity.

Do you honestly think this person who made the recording feels proud of the outcome of releasing the mob of sjw Twitter hounds? Reading the comments?
I certainly wouldn't. But maybe that's just me.

So you wasted his day pissed him off and lost him as a customer. Good job gold stars for everyone.

LOL, classic senior/white entitlement.

At least she didn't get banned from RevScene... :inoutugh:

This shit happens all the time. We have had people who don't get a table right away at the restaurant say its because of racism, and even leave reviews about it online. Honestly accusing everyone around you of being racist when you don't get your way is just as ridiculous as being racist as it attempts to delegitimize real racism. Its especially pathetic when its in an environment that is full of all ethnicities as employees and customers. Like you aren't the one person that lost the racism lottery that day.
People are racist, and people do racist shit, but just because someone of a different ethnicity treats you like an asshole, it can be for any multitude of reasons other than racism.

Is it just a coincidence that the amount of racism reported in the media is going up in the past four years after the election of Dotard Trump as POTUS?

:considered:

All these racists, Nazis, and white nationalists crawl out of the woodwork to spew their hatred because a racist politician emboldens them to do so?

Are you saying you didn't give that customer a table, cuz u were being an asshole? Lol lmao wtf

Either way you want to interpret it, that wouldn't have been the case. We would have been treating them like the asshole, that they were. Regardless, we didn't give them a table because the 50 people that got there before them, regardless of ethnicity, get seated first.
Treating someone like an asshole doesn't make you an asshole, unless they aren't an asshole. It's asshole math.

In a heated argument people can say some stupid things.

I’m about as anti racial as it comes, I make plenty of jokes but in reality I like to think I give everyone the equal opportunity until they show me a reason not too.

I was riding my road bike on beach ave doing 30+ km/h. The speed limit is 30km/h. This man, who looked to be of Spanish decent yells at me and points to the causeway and yells “bike paths over there (pointing south).

I came back with a couple words but then stopped myself halfway... I was about to say “you know what else is over their? Mexico!” Do I have anything against Mexicans? absolutely not. In fact it’s my favourite place to travel too, for the people!!! It was a cheap shot for no reason. An idiotic thing to think in an attempt to retaliate from someone’s stupid comment in the first place.

Where am I going with this? Sometimes people say (or my case, think) things for a cheap shot or to get a rise out of someone. I’m not defending this women, but don’t just jump on the bandwagon.

Or I’m just an awful person. Who knows.

how you know he's not from Honduras or Burnaby
but it's ok because i like the food at Metrotown

Exactly. Its an idiotic thing to say, but was used as a quick cheap insult for zero reason other then the fact it was easy.

I would have been so angry at myself if I had actually said something. Instilling hate for no reason other then retaliation/defence for a stupid comment. Twitchy you can sit up on your pedestal all you want, but the world is not black and white. If you open your eyes, you might start to enjoy the whole experience. Failing me for thinking something is an interesting point.

If that poor sap had mind reading capabilities, got so upset and crashed his car, I’d be right behind him, my spandex clad ass burning in the fiery crash trying to save him. I’m just trying to say, sometimes people say shot they don’t mean. The only thing I would have done to that guy is not hold the door open for him because I was having a bad day and he pissed me off.

You forgot the most important part Manic!

Don't let the mainstream news head fake you too hard

https://torontosun.com/opinion/colum...in-hate-crimes