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Relationship & Gender DiscussionTHIS SPACE OPEN FOR ADVERTISEMENT. YOU SHOULD BE ADVERTISING HERE! The thin line between love and hate
Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...
I don't have any room to work on the car myself. I found out the GN Mechanics in Burnaby has a lot of experience with the Prius. I'm gonna drive it out there, and see if they can save me money over getting it done at the dealership. Tonight, I have to pull out my subwoofer and amps because they're in the way of where the work needs to be done
Morals aside. If two people all focus on their own life so much that they cease to make time and effort for each other. Are they still in a relationship than?
The old saying if it matters you will make time is true.
I'm going thru all the motions in my head. I know the magic is gone. I know the relationship is on life support. Yet I still don't want to let go. I know I will never find another girl like her
And yea I'm still being a jerk face.
You're right but that will be your safety net and hers when you guys break up because clearly the magic is already gone and you can both leave each other on equal terms instead of the one who speaks up first is the jerk.
It seems like you both have different values and priorities right now so you're going to let go one way or another in the end. If you end it fast and quick there's less repercussions, imagine how bad it will turn out if she found out you got a side chick. No one knows what happens in the future, so breaking up on equal terms now doesn't mean there won't be magic maybe a couple years down the road.
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Morals aside. If two people all focus on their own life so much that they cease to make time and effort for each other. Are they still in a relationship than?
The old saying if it matters you will make time is true.
I'm going thru all the motions in my head. I know the magic is gone. I know the relationship is on life support. Yet I still don't want to let go. I know I will never find another girl like her
And yea I'm still being a jerk face.
Morals aside, if you two don't feel anything for each other anymore (which is how you're putting it completely), stop wasting each others' time. I'll say that ending it early is light years less painful than ending it another few years down the road. Never mind about a kid, but once one party starts resenting the other for taking up too much time, it leads to pointing fingers and placing fault.
Back to reality, you cheated on her; so, like you give a fuck about her feelings anyways.
On one hand, you made me who I am today. I will always be eternally grateful that you were one of the people that helped change me into this person.
But the past two weeks that we have been on this break...why does it feel so natural to be without you? I also seem to be 2x more productive, the business is growing, and besides being bored at times there are really not too many negative emotions.
I know you love me, I know that you want to get back together when the summer ends and just be stronger than ever just like last time we broke up. But are we really even the same people anymore.
You'll forever be one of the people that I will hold closest to my heart, I think that I really need to start considering if it will be the best for the both of us to stay together or cut ties completely on good terms. I think this is the greatest problems for long term relationships where you're highschool sweethearts, it's so fucking hard to let go of because you have no clue what life even is without them. I don't want to make a mistake, and regret seeing you with someone else.
On one hand, you made me who I am today. I will always be eternally grateful that you were one of the people that helped change me into this person.
But the past two weeks that we have been on this break...why does it feel so natural to be without you? I also seem to be 2x more productive, the business is growing, and besides being bored at times there are really not too many negative emotions.
I know you love me, I know that you want to get back together when the summer ends and just be stronger than ever just like last time we broke up. But are we really even the same people anymore.
You'll forever be one of the people that I will hold closest to my heart, I think that I really need to start considering if it will be the best for the both of us to stay together or cut ties completely on good terms. I think this is the greatest problems for long term relationships where you're highschool sweethearts, it's so fucking hard to let go of because you have no clue what life even is without them. I don't want to make a mistake, and regret seeing you with someone else.
A student asks a teacher, "What is love?" The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the field, went through first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wondered….maybe there is a bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one….maybe there is an even bigger one waiting for him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he started to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he realizes he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.
So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.
The teacher told him, "..this is love.. you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already missed the person.."
*"What is marriage then?" the student asked.
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.
The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.. you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get.. this is marriage."
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Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them.
Make the effort and take the risk..
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right- for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't." - Eleanor Roosevelt
The more I time I spend talking to people at work, the more retarded I feel. For example, this one girl I work with, makes like $40K gross, so net $30Kish. Tells me she wants to buy a townhouse in "VANCOUVER". I'm thinking to myself, you must be day dreaming too much or really optimistic. She's single and her family ain't rich either. Money must be coming out of her ass for her to even consider this. She refuses to live anywhere further than Vancouver. These are the types of stupid conversations I end up having at work, in which their head stuck far up their ass to think realistically.
I ain't the type to go around at work judging people as we are all different, but at least be realistic on the shit you say. End of rant/
On one hand, you made me who I am today. I will always be eternally grateful that you were one of the people that helped change me into this person.
But the past two weeks that we have been on this break...why does it feel so natural to be without you? I also seem to be 2x more productive, the business is growing, and besides being bored at times there are really not too many negative emotions.
I know you love me, I know that you want to get back together when the summer ends and just be stronger than ever just like last time we broke up. But are we really even the same people anymore.
You'll forever be one of the people that I will hold closest to my heart, I think that I really need to start considering if it will be the best for the both of us to stay together or cut ties completely on good terms. I think this is the greatest problems for long term relationships where you're highschool sweethearts, it's so fucking hard to let go of because you have no clue what life even is without them. I don't want to make a mistake, and regret seeing you with someone else.
seems like you're doing just fine.
if the feelings are really gone, don't waste her time
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The reason for Speak it Out is to actually set PK-EK up with someone, whether that be someone from this thread or outside of RS.
On one hand, you made me who I am today. I will always be eternally grateful that you were one of the people that helped change me into this person.
But the past two weeks that we have been on this break...why does it feel so natural to be without you? I also seem to be 2x more productive, the business is growing, and besides being bored at times there are really not too many negative emotions.
I know you love me, I know that you want to get back together when the summer ends and just be stronger than ever just like last time we broke up. But are we really even the same people anymore.
You'll forever be one of the people that I will hold closest to my heart, I think that I really need to start considering if it will be the best for the both of us to stay together or cut ties completely on good terms. I think this is the greatest problems for long term relationships where you're highschool sweethearts, it's so fucking hard to let go of because you have no clue what life even is without them. I don't want to make a mistake, and regret seeing you with someone else.
Just move on, you'll soon realize time will wash away all things. From your first crush to now your high school sweet hearts. Delete, remove and just completely walk away. The ONLY time I've seen this shit work, is when you bump into them 15 yrs later (literally) and with all the ups and downs in life (and all the people you have dated), that it's just awesome to marry ur high school sweet hearts. Very rare but I've seen it happen.
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