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Old 06-19-2017, 08:03 AM   #22901
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This city has nothing to offer me anymore.

I'm gonna drop everything here and relocate to Toronto by the end of next year or 2020.

This is a personal goal, I got nothing to lose here. Unless something drastically happens from now til' then.

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Old 06-20-2017, 12:10 AM   #22902
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idk what to do... i like this girl, i connect with her really well from my perspective atleast, and i like her alot, but my friend who has known her longer also likes her... what am i suppose to do... i want to be with her but i also dont want to ruin my brohood with him...

(edit) like i can accept all her flaws, because i have mine, it will be a long distant relationship but im able to accept that... she just able to make me smile all the time even though im 900km away from her... and she has to go back to Taiwan every summer. but i really value my friendships... and dont want to ruin it.. should i just give up?
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Old 06-20-2017, 08:56 AM   #22903
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Does your bro know? If he does..

Let the beta games begin, may the best of bros win the lady.


inb4 FZ'd again.
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Old 06-20-2017, 09:10 AM   #22904
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We kinda already confirmed our feelings while I went to visit her, so feelings are there, I just couldn't full comit on asking her if she would like to date me, because I know one of my best friend has a really big thing for her...

And no he doesn't know yet... It would break him if he knew, because I'm the only one that he can openly talk to about feelings....
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Old 06-20-2017, 10:54 AM   #22905
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Old 06-20-2017, 10:58 AM   #22906
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If your best friend has a really big crush on her and doesn't do anything about it, then that's his own damn fault.

Just because someone knows another person longer doesn't mean that they know them best.

I don't get the mentality of "If I can't have her, no one can" mentality. That's fuckin' selfish and god damn childish.

Wanna be a bro? Talk to him about it and if he's ok with it, go for it. It'd be the grown up thing to do. If he can't handle you going for her crush, maybe he should have done something about it sooner. You want something? Try and get it. Don't mope around and stop others from getting it. How old are you fuckers? 12? Jesus.

If your friend is making less money than you and he's unhappy about it, should you quit your job and find a lower paying one?
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If it's over a fuckin' year, his lost.
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Old 06-20-2017, 11:02 AM   #22908
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^^^ actually nevermind, I know Evo's god damn old enough to be nearly in jail after hitting it up with a LG. Kid in a man's body.

Fuckin' do what you need to do Evo. God damn it. Stop being so god damn quasi philosophical.
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Lol this isn't about the lg, but I think I know what needs to be done.
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Old 06-20-2017, 11:40 AM   #22910
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Old 06-20-2017, 12:14 PM   #22911
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Made a choice and hoping it's the right one...

Everything seems to be falling into place.
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Old 06-20-2017, 12:40 PM   #22912
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Lol this isn't about the lg, but I think I know what needs to be done.
That wasn't my point. My point was that you're a grown ass man but with the mentality of a 12 year old with no self-control.

Getting dronk as fock won't help you, beating around the bush won't help you, making excuses won't help you, lying won't help you. You burn that plush bear yet?

Man the fuck up and if you want something do what you need (legally) to get it. Your buddy didn't put a ring on it and had he wanted it bad enough, he would have gone for it and either got shot down or be livin' it up with her. If he can't do either, I'm sorry, but you can't help him with that, only he can help himself. It just goes back to the whole job thing, it's up to him to try and get a better job and better his situation; you can feel bad for him and talk it out, but at the end of the day, if he ain't gonna do it, it's not right that he stops you from trying.

You, pussy-footing around, ain't helping him and it ain't helping yourself. Eventually she's gonna need to be with *someone*. Would you rather it be one of you two guys or someone else you don't know.

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Sounds like a K Drama.

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PS, Personally, I think what you're doing now is a dick move already.

You know he is crushing on her, then you go share your feelings with her anyways. You've already stabbed him in the back. You know all this yet you've only come to question the commitment after that. So, I guess that kinda gives away the character you are...

I think that might be the root of your problem, no follow through and you become a buzz kill after you have to think about it then not commit.

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I just couldn't full comit on asking her if she would like to date me, because I know one of my best friend has a really big thing for her...
Hesitate, and you disintegrate (into the friendzone)

When I met my wife, she was being asked out by another guy. I told her to go out for a cruise with me, and I locked her in. Other guy? What other guy?

Why are you still in PG? Long distance is not gonna work for you. Either move back to the Lower Mainland, or find a PG gal that still has all her teeth.
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Hesitate, and you disintegrate (into the friendzone)

When I met my wife, she was being asked out by another guy. I told her to go out for a cruise with me, and I locked her in. Other guy? What other guy?

Why are you still in PG? Long distance is not gonna work for you. Either move back to the Lower Mainland, or find a PG gal that still has all her teeth.
Will you go out with me, Presto? Lock me in. Harder daddy....

scratch that last one please.
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Hesitate, and you disintegrate (into the friendzone)

When I met my wife, she was being asked out by another guy. I told her to go out for a cruise with me, and I locked her in. Other guy? What other guy?

Why are you still in PG? Long distance is not gonna work for you. Either move back to the Lower Mainland, or find a PG gal that still has all her teeth.
she doesn't live in the lower mainland, she moved to Edmonton. im in pg for school
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PS, Personally, I think what you're doing now is a dick move already.

You know he is crushing on her, then you go share your feelings with her anyways. You've already stabbed him in the back. You know all this yet you've only come to question the commitment after that. So, I guess that kinda gives away the character you are...

I think that might be the root of your problem, no follow through and you become a buzz kill after you have to think about it then not commit.

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ehh, things happened while i was visiting her, and one thing lead to another... i wasn't intending on doing anything. But i did
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i want to be with her but i also dont want to ruin my brohood with him...

but i really value my friendships... and dont want to ruin it.. should i just give up?
Don't trust Evo with a butter knife, he'll still stab you in the back with it.
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Don't trust Evo with a butter knife, he'll still stab you in the back with it.
we're both thinking if we should pretend nothing happened. It seems like she doesn't really want to do that. but what do i know...
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Last yr I was dry as shit; this yr, got 3 girls on the go even on the online dating scene. Man i really how at least one of them would work out.

Oh well, take it with a grain of salt, let's see how this plays out. Let the summer begin.
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