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08-15-2017, 08:06 AM
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#23076 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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Originally Posted by SpeedStars  Just told her through text it's not gonna work if she keeps making up excuses and that she wasted 2 months of my time. Think I'm gonna hold off on online dating for now. | Quote:
Originally Posted by ilovebacon I was on the same boat. If you walk away and she doesnt chase you back. Dont even look back. | Just be careful in that there are women - fuckgirls who do chase you back for a bit, then when you bite the bait, they're gone again or "it's just not working out" . Then it's an endless cycle of chasing. You have to know when to say enough is enough, cause you'll want to think she'll change and this time it'll be real or that it's a waste of effort if you just give up. No. Cut it off. Don't even be friends. Girls like that just like the chase, no matter the cost. Quote:
Originally Posted by ilovebacon Just know that it was a good experience to learn from it. You leveled up if you don't continue things with her anymore | Cut off the friendship/potential relationship. Not worth your efforts if it's the above described case. Like ilovebacon said, know that it was a good experience. Quote:
Originally Posted by ilovebacon Are there still even people out there who put in 50/50 of their effort to keep a relationship alive | Frankly, it doesn't even seem so :/
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08-15-2017, 08:26 AM
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FUCK. Someone broke into my car last night in my condo garage. They broke my rear windshield. I think they were trying to steal my stereo equipment. My subwoofer was sitting next to the car. Maybe they were seen. I'm near the elevator. I hope they seriously injured themselves. They had to pull it up and out of the rear hatch, and it weighs 50 lbs.
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08-15-2017, 09:47 AM
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#23078 | | I *heart* Revscene.net very Muchie
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Originally Posted by Euro7r To add. She's not committed in anyway to me, so it's fair she see's others. Right now I am at a 50/50 chance. I have another date end of next week (could be my last or could be many more to come going forward). I feel like my mentality right now is, I have to bring the best out of me to set myself apart from the other person and also impress so that I have the highest chance to succeed. Other than that, there's not much I can do at the moment or "prepare" for??
Planning to take her on a hike, that way we have plenty of opportunities to communicate and at the same time have plenty of fun. |
Don't prepare man just be yourself if you prepare for it it will just make you more nervous. Hike is good for a first date I would do the Quarry rock than grab some gelato or a bite to eat after near by at the shops. Only problem is you will have to arrive early as finding parking at the Quarry is impossible.
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08-16-2017, 09:40 AM
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#23079 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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Originally Posted by hotong Don't prepare man just be yourself if you prepare for it it will just make you more nervous. Hike is good for a first date I would do the Quarry rock than grab some gelato or a bite to eat after near by at the shops. Only problem is you will have to arrive early as finding parking at the Quarry is impossible. | Another concern I'm afraid is the stupid Vancouver weather.
Would be choked if it rains. Limits a lot of things to do...
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08-16-2017, 11:23 AM
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#23080 | | I *heart* Revscene.net very Muchie
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Originally Posted by Euro7r Another concern I'm afraid is the stupid Vancouver weather.
Would be choked if it rains. Limits a lot of things to do... | If it rains you can do bouldering! It's pretty fun.
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08-16-2017, 07:56 PM
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#23081 | | MiX iT Up!
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Originally Posted by hotong If it rains you can do bouldering! It's pretty fun. | where?
can you do rock climbing there too?
assuming indoors.
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08-16-2017, 08:26 PM
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#23082 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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Originally Posted by tiger_handheld where?
can you do rock climbing there too?
assuming indoors. | If you're talking about in general you have some local favourites like The Hive or Cliffhanger
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08-21-2017, 07:46 AM
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#23083 | | うに
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I sold two of my cars over the weekend and bought a motorcycle.
No one has said anything, but I feel like everyone knows the main reason I did this was to prove to myself that I can move on and start new chapters in my life.
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08-21-2017, 09:15 AM
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#23084 | | I subscribe to the Fight Club ONLY
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^ what bike?
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08-21-2017, 09:51 AM
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#23085 | | うに
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Originally Posted by 6793026 ^ what bike? | 2005 CBR600RR
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08-21-2017, 09:56 AM
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#23086 | | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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Better question is what cars were they
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08-21-2017, 10:10 AM
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#23087 | | うに
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Originally Posted by Fafine Better question is what cars were they | Sold the 2011 Honda CRZ and the 1991 Mazda Miata 
now I have my Beater RSX and Turbo RSX remaining. Along with my CBR600RR and a broken SV650 (Worth $500)
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08-21-2017, 10:12 AM
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#23088 | | My AFC gave me an ABS CEL code of LOL while at WOT!
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Originally Posted by PK-EK Sold the 2011 Honda CRZ and the 1991 Mazda Miata
now I have my Beater RSX and Turbo RSX remaining. Along with my CBR600RR and a broken SV650 (Worth $500) | turbo rsx sounds fun, stock internals?
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08-21-2017, 10:39 AM
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#23089 | | うに
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Originally Posted by TOS'd The reason for Speak it Out is to actually set PK-EK up with someone, whether that be someone from this thread or outside of RS. |
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08-25-2017, 12:13 AM
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#23090 | | WUB WUB WUB WUB WUB
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Sometimes it's just better to step aside and let them burn so they can learn their lesson
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08-25-2017, 07:14 AM
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#23091 | | うに
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08-25-2017, 07:15 AM
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#23092 | | うに
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08-25-2017, 08:33 AM
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#23093 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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She wanted sum fuck, but you denied her. So she went fucking some other guy  Quote:
Originally Posted by PK-EK So She called me last night at like 9:00pm
I didn't answer the call....
I feel bad for not answering. but if it was important she would of followed up with a message. | | |
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08-25-2017, 08:37 AM
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#23094 | | うに
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Originally Posted by dapperfied She wanted sum fuck, but you denied her. So she went fucking some other guy | hahahah
I wish, she's still a virgin bro
even after begging and pleading, i never got any.
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08-25-2017, 09:06 AM
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#23095 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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08-25-2017, 07:01 PM
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#23096 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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uh oh,sounds like a nice church girl you got there. or the back-up young girlfriend if any women your age wanna fuck around and cheat there's a safety net 
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08-27-2017, 01:52 PM
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#23097 | | I Will not Admit my Addiction to RS
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Almost two months deep into this relationship and still no tension at all, not even one tiny argument, nothing wrong so far... I keep just expecting something bad to happen but so far this has been perfect.
My last relationship, we fought after a week and kept fighting for years and years lol. So not used to this
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08-30-2017, 07:39 AM
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#23098 | | I STILL don't get it
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Chicken nuggets > love
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08-30-2017, 07:47 AM
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#23099 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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Is it bad that I associate fighting with your s/o as growing together? Ie. Even though it's hard, you're both always trying to make up and keep trying. Or is this the wrong way to think about things
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08-30-2017, 08:04 AM
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#23100 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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Long Overdue Update:
I went on a 3rd date this past weekend, everything went well and she even had fun. I asked her for dinner that she agreed to this Friday as I wanted to make it official dating relationship. Now here's the curve ball, she messaged me yesterday and said she doesn't want to give me any false hope. Said I'm super nice, amazing and great, but doesn't know how well we connect. She is also seeing another person as well but also doesn't know him that well.
I told her that it's been tough for me to be who I am as I feel in the back of my mind, I always need to play the right cards, such as say right things and do right things. That is because I know I have competition and I don't want to set off any bad impressions.
End of the day, her stance right now is she doesn't know what she wants I feel and also seeing two guys stresses her out. I'm somewhat lost in this situation on what my approach should be to get her. I just know I've changed my attitude towards this and that is just be myself and go with the flow and not over complicate things as I initially have been doing. I did ask if she likes seeing me or doing so out of obligation and she said a bit of both.
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