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Old 07-05-2021, 08:34 AM   #24976
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Iunno man. Social anxiety? Wouldn't know. Don't have that issue.

But anxiety is real and you should try being more empathetic, even if you don't understand it.

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Old 07-05-2021, 10:47 AM   #24977
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Iunno man. Social anxiety? Wouldn't know. Don't have that issue.

But anxiety is real and you should try being more empathetic, even if you don't understand it.

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Yeah, there are people that are good at talking behind the screen and they are just socially awkward in person. I know people that are grown up adults 40s+ and you just cannot carry an engaging conversation with them in person (likely part of the reason why they are still single). Then I know some that are too pussy to make a single move and never had a girlfriend in their entire life. To me, what the fuck is there to ever lose? If it doesn't work out, then move the fuck on. These are the people that just should stay single (can't just expect someone to hand you pussy in front of your face).
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Old 07-05-2021, 09:46 PM   #24978
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Yeah, there are people that are good at talking behind the screen and they are just socially awkward in person. I know people that are grown up adults 40s+ and you just cannot carry an engaging conversation with them in person (likely part of the reason why they are still single). Then I know some that are too pussy to make a single move and never had a girlfriend in their entire life. To me, what the fuck is there to ever lose? If it doesn't work out, then move the fuck on. These are the people that just should stay single (can't just expect someone to hand you pussy in front of your face).
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Old 07-06-2021, 09:44 PM   #24979
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My pussy is wet already.

Expecting a report back on the actual date itself here.
We have conflicting schedules and the heat dome didn't help.

We did end up meeting and we were able to talk beyond the chat messages getting deeper into our personal lives as well as life itself. It was good, it was refreshing and it felt like 2018 again. I was already aware she was interested in me (hence asking ME out) so I tried to expand on my qualities that made her interested in me in the first place.

In addition to talking, we held hands, she felt my heartbeat and I gazed into her eyes with that warm smile only matched by the 32 degree humidex.

The highlight was when we got ice cream. I asked her if she wanted to try some of my flavour. She said 'sure'. So, I took a mouthful of mine and kissed her with it. Was about 10 seconds long. I waited for her eyes to close and her lips to relax as that sign of approval. I was a bit anxious and it was a long 10 seconds but despite her initial shock, she loved the spontaneity of it. Her personality was even warmer after that moment.

She wants to meet again.
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Old 07-06-2021, 11:46 PM   #24980
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The highlight was when we got ice cream. I asked her if she wanted to try some of my flavour. She said 'sure'. So, I took a mouthful of mine and kissed her with it. Was about 10 seconds long. I waited for her eyes to close and her lips to relax as that sign of approval. I was a bit anxious and it was a long 10 seconds but despite her initial shock, she loved the spontaneity of it. Her personality was even warmer after that moment.
Damn that is a good move! Nicely done~!
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Old 07-07-2021, 05:03 PM   #24981
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We have conflicting schedules and the heat dome didn't help.

We did end up meeting and we were able to talk beyond the chat messages getting deeper into our personal lives as well as life itself. It was good, it was refreshing and it felt like 2018 again. I was already aware she was interested in me (hence asking ME out) so I tried to expand on my qualities that made her interested in me in the first place.

In addition to talking, we held hands, she felt my heartbeat and I gazed into her eyes with that warm smile only matched by the 32 degree humidex.

The highlight was when we got ice cream. I asked her if she wanted to try some of my flavour. She said 'sure'. So, I took a mouthful of mine and kissed her with it. Was about 10 seconds long. I waited for her eyes to close and her lips to relax as that sign of approval. I was a bit anxious and it was a long 10 seconds but despite her initial shock, she loved the spontaneity of it. Her personality was even warmer after that moment.

She wants to meet again.
Look at this Casanova, very nice man.

Hand holding right from the jump, and I like that ice cream move, that's some big dick energy.

I'm impressed. A good date in scorching heat at that, not an easy task.

Sounds like you'll hit the second/third date no problem

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We have conflicting schedules and the heat dome didn't help.

We did end up meeting and we were able to talk beyond the chat messages getting deeper into our personal lives as well as life itself. It was good, it was refreshing and it felt like 2018 again. I was already aware she was interested in me (hence asking ME out) so I tried to expand on my qualities that made her interested in me in the first place.

In addition to talking, we held hands, she felt my heartbeat and I gazed into her eyes with that warm smile only matched by the 32 degree humidex.

The highlight was when we got ice cream. I asked her if she wanted to try some of my flavour. She said 'sure'. So, I took a mouthful of mine and kissed her with it. Was about 10 seconds long. I waited for her eyes to close and her lips to relax as that sign of approval. I was a bit anxious and it was a long 10 seconds but despite her initial shock, she loved the spontaneity of it. Her personality was even warmer after that moment.

She wants to meet again.
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Sorry, I'm recovering from surgery last Sunday. Short term recovery is 3 weeks, long term recovery is 1-4 months.

She messaged me throughout this past week, checking up on me and we talked here and there (when I wasn't under the influence).

I remember she sent me a message asking me a question and I nodded off on my recliner for 3 hours. I eventually responded, telling her what happened and she replied with 'Awe, I wish I could be there to help you recover faster '. I responded with 'Your words are enough medicine for me' and she replied with ''.

She just had her second dose this past Friday and has developed a fever and dehydration so I've been sending her warm messages too. Basically, we are mutually albeit vocally taking care of each other at this point.
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Old 07-18-2021, 08:55 AM   #24984
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Now you've hooked her emotionally, just gotta give her the good d to secure the package

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Old 07-20-2021, 02:25 PM   #24985
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is this real life?

or have I just become a sour old man that calls bullshit on all this because I don't believe in Disney movies anymore?
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is this real life?



or have I just become a sour old man that calls bullshit on all this because I don't believe in Disney movies anymore?
Yeah it reads a little cheesy to me. Cute af tho.

But I can empathize with you on the sourness.

If it is real, enjoy it while it lasts.

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Old 07-20-2021, 03:55 PM   #24987
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is this real life?
Is this just fantasy?
Caught in a landside,
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I'm just a poor boy, I need no sympathy
Because I'm easy come, easy go, little high, little low
Any way the wind blows doesn't really matter to me, to me
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Thanks to those that gave suggestions/tips on couples therapy. I went with my partner to a registered psychologist for therapy sessions and have come to the conclusion that we are no longer going to continue our relationship. Going to take some time to heal from 7+ years with her.
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