affairs are not complicated, you just need money to do so honestly. dating these days feels so transactional that guys are just opting out.

Playing 2-4x golf a week at 2.5-5 hours a round, 1.5 hours of driving and then maybe a quick 1 hour social dinner after.

Takes up pretty much all of lifting time. But gonna dial back to max 1-2x a week now.

Still no excuse though, when I played vball and golf 5-6x a week, I could still gym 4x a week.

who's got the time money or energy to live a double life.
i got kids so i as sure hell don't :lol

:okay:

where there's a will, there's a way. people have always been creative when finding ways to cheat. there's obviously plenty of stories of men and women who are married with kids and still managed a second life.

I think that's what websites like Ashley Madison are for. :lol

I feel like people have more time/patience to do that in their 20s and early 30s.

In my 20s I was savage, a chronic cheater.

It's too stressful as you get older.

ah i was an engineering nerd, forget cheating, couldn't pull 1 let alone more than 1 in my 20's :lol :lawl:



:okay:

pretty much, then i discovered the gym and in my head became
http://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/im...2_DWbJDUIpbw&s

WELL WELL a big muscle bound nerd... just more of you to pick on !!!

lol "How do I lose weight real quick?" thread becomes "How do I lose half my net worth real quick?"

My advice - whatever you do, don't fuck the HR lady.

also pre-nup :lol

I hear about horror stories in the US about losing half especially in “no fault” states. Is it just as bad in Canada and you lose half or more if there’s kids?

The reason why men "lose half" is because their wives tend to make less income, or no income at all, during marriage. Divorce in no fault jurisdictions is supposed to make both people equal after the relationship ends.

Is it fair for the spouse who earns little to no income to become destitute after a marriage ends? It's going to be pretty hard for a stay at home parent to earn an income after being out of the workforce after several years to several decades.

I've been an advocate of partnering up with your equal in both assets, earning potential, and upbringing for a long time, but I also realize that I'm in the minority. Men will be men and women will be women.

Anyway, lots of dad bods out there these days.

Few things, the HR lady resigned yesterday. CEO resigned long time ago. If I was HR lady, i woudl have negotiated a deal LOL. A hug doesn't mean NOTHING, so you better package me out.

In China, they changed since Feb 1 2025, u dont' auto get 50% so that's interesting.

China’s divorce property division laws, changed effective February 1, 2025. Some experts say the new divorce and property division law is driven by skyrocketing divorce rates.

The new law shifts away from the previous practice of automatic 50/50 asset splits in divorce. Instead, property division will be primarily based on who brought what into the relationship, and which parties and which party’s parents financially contributed to its acquisition.

I agree with this 100% and follow the same sentiments.

Zero interest in ever marrying a loser or someone that doesn't carry a career with somewhat equivalent means, nowadays especially where women are educated and have lots of opportunities.

I've never understood the types of guys who marry some province woman from a backwater third world country and when the marriage inevitably ends they're crying about getting taken to the cleaners for alimony and all that crap.

Idiots.

That being said I’ll take all your unwanted blondes mikey.

I knew a guy who wasn’t even married to this woman, and he only ever saw the kid when the dad was picking him up from the woman’s home

And even he got stuck paying child support :lol

Court argued he was a “father figure” in the 15 minutes a week he saw the kid lol fuck.

Wow, that sucks!

ok you youngin's, here's what you've learned...

don't get married, don't cohabit, no single parents, and partner of equal social status...

or just wait for AI fembots :lawl:

serious though, honda's example is straight up wild, did dude not have proper representation?

^thats why i said LeoList is your best friend.

Until you have an accident and they come back for child support.

Can you check it out and report back. I heard it's mostly 30+ or 3-5/10 girls.

I recently met 2 30's fobs at a party that are secretly escorts

How were you able to confirm they were escorts? And were they 3-5/10?

According to the guy at work who had 3 ex wife’s they are quite good. Of course it’s based on price. Don’t get the 100 dollar sucky sucky ones. Get the 400-500+