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Old 07-14-2018, 08:47 AM   #24251
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How have you been? It's been awhile since we last spoke.

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Old 07-15-2018, 07:08 AM   #24252
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I was struggling with a decision earlier this week. Buy my dream car or invest the money. The choice is clear now: Send my family (parents + brother) to Hong Kong to see my grandparents, the M3 can wait.

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That's a big gift, good on you for sending them to HK. I have the same thoughts as well. Buy a really fun car that won't depreciate that much, but lose out on the market gains on $22k. I think if I can sell my car I'll yolo it.
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Old 07-15-2018, 01:48 PM   #24254
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Well I know my mom is super close with her dad (my grandpa) and I know she doesn't have money to pay for a trip. We locked up most of our money in a private placement. Grandpa recently got diagnosed with another brain tumor, so it would only be right if I could at least send mom to HK to spend time with him.

It's really hard not to be selfish. Could get an m3.. I found a good one too.
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Old 07-15-2018, 04:07 PM   #24255
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^Materialistic toys come and go, can always work and make money to buy it later on.

One of my biggest regrets in my life was not being able to spend as much time as I should have when I was younger with grandparents before they passed away. I worked a lot and at the end of it and reflecting back, money cannot buy family time.
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Old 07-15-2018, 06:16 PM   #24256
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I feel you was working 7 days a week for awhile decided to take the day off and go for a nice drive
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Old 07-16-2018, 07:40 AM   #24258
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Old 07-16-2018, 10:31 AM   #24259
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thoughts on FWB?

I don't think i can do it. I get too attached and jealous; someone tell me there is nothing wrong with that.
There is nothing wrong with FWB, as long as both of you are aware of the nature of the relationship, and what you're getting into.
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I don't think i can do it. I get too attached and jealous; someone tell me there is nothing wrong with that.
You're not cut out for FWB. More suited for FWOB (friends without benefits).
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Buy a really fun car that won't depreciate that much, but lose out on the market gains on $22k. I think if I can sell my car I'll yolo it.
Life's too short to not do what you like.

Started my career earlier this year and I know I should save up for a house. But being 25 and having never owned a new car, I think I will buy a Civic Type R next year. I have enough saved up, plus the trade-in value on my current car, that my monthly payments will be low enough that I can still save on the side for a down payment.

Several years ago now, my ex made me sell my manual "fun" car and told me to get an automatic car, which is why I bought my TSX. Even at the dealership I was eyeing a 2012 Civic Si with the 6-speed but she said flat-out "no". We broke up soon after that, as I learned what a controlling bitch she was.

Ever since then I've wanted to get back into a fun manual car. Now that the money is there, I figure I should get it out of my system before the current GF wants to get married and have kids..... time flies...
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Life's too short to not do what you like.

Started my career earlier this year and I know I should save up for a house. But being 25 and having never owned a new car, I think I will buy a Civic Type R next year. I have enough saved up, plus the trade-in value on my current car, that my monthly payments will be low enough that I can still save on the side for a down payment.

Several years ago now, my ex made me sell my manual "fun" car and told me to get an automatic car, which is why I bought my TSX. Even at the dealership I was eyeing a 2012 Civic Si with the 6-speed but she said flat-out "no". We broke up soon after that, as I learned what a controlling bitch she was.

Ever since then I've wanted to get back into a fun manual car. Now that the money is there, I figure I should get it out of my system before the current GF wants to get married and have kids..... time flies...
LOL, if a girl doesn't like a fun car then she can GTFO and walk/take the shitty buses in Victoria.

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Old 07-18-2018, 07:46 AM   #24263
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I don't think i can do it. I get too attached and jealous; someone tell me there is nothing wrong with that.
bruh....forget women,a bitch thinks she could give me the best handjob,nobody knows my dick better than my own hand.



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Old 07-19-2018, 03:17 AM   #24264
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We havnt talked in a while, it was nice talking to you.. You have a bf now but i dont feel bad... Im actually happy for you. You found someone that you can truly love and open up to. Idk how im suppose to feel but congratulations im truly happy for you.
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fucking stop it
it's either you go steal her back or you move on

stop doing this to yourself and making yourself feel bad; no one is going to pity you if you continue like this
I've moved on, i don't feel anything. We ran in to each other had a coffee and talked for a bit like the way we did before we started seeing each other. Its much better the way things are right now, stress free not needing to question if we would make it or not. My friends said i should of resented her but who needs that kind of negativity in their life.
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if you really did move on, and you really do not have feelings for her anymore; then you wouldn't feel the need to post it on here for us. g
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Presto, you've told me your story before, but i don't remember the age when you guys met.
how old were you? how old was she? how old are you now?
I love/hate that RS has my life on it. It makes an okay journal, but it also makes me feel old because I've been a member for almost half my life. It looks like you asked me this question, previously:

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I met her in 2009, when I was 30. She was 20.
Now, I'm 2 months from 40, and she is a month away from 30 (Which, I try to never remind her).


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its such a romantic story; one of my favorites here, but i don't remember what the age gap was. and i'm too lazy to go through the thread looking

also, how did mom feel about this?
did she feel like maybe you were too old for her daughter?
did she bring up the fact that you two are at different stages of life? and how shes still a child and will have a different mindset when she is your age?
Her mom and her family didn't like the idea of the age gap. There was no discussion with the mother, but there was suspicions of what we were up to. The situation worked itself out after we got engaged, and they knew I wasn't going anywhere. Since I'm kind of immature, the age gap worked out for us. We also discussed long-term future plans, and decided our goals lined up to team up until the end.
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